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FWP question (TMI)

deedeew80deedeew80 member
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Hi girls!  This is probably TMI, but I figured this is the best place to ask!!  LOL!  DH has a problem with being too "quick".  So, usually, I do other things to make him "go" before we actually get down to it, this way he will last longer.  Now that we are FWP, is it a good thing for him to "go" before actually doing it?  Are we "wasting" good sperm?!  LOL!  Thanks girls!  Sorry about all the TMI!! Embarrassed
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Re: FWP question (TMI)

  • thewarrensthewarrens member
    NNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't waste a drop! (IMO)
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  • ibisibis member

    Ok, don't worry about the TMI, just say what you want to say in plain terms. We can take it. :)

    Are you saying you have him ejaculate once and then have sex? I would not do that if you're trying to conceive.... Of course it should be fun for you too, so maybe try having him bring you to orgasm in other ways (oral, whatever) first and then have sex - he can come right away then if he needs to.

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  • irishbaby0708irishbaby0708 member

    From what I have Read yes it is.  Also, my Re said the post powerful sperm are the first ones out so even if he was premature ej youmay be wasting the good ones.   If I were you I would let him be quick and you can always have a second go around.   

    GL!!! 

     

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  • deedeew80deedeew80 member
    Thanks girls!!!  I knew I would get some answers!!!  LOL!  We definitely won't be wasting sperm anymore!!!  Thanks again for the advice!!! Big Smile
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