We were so petrified to even have one more baby that DH got the snip 4 months after the trio was born, even though we aren't exactly having sex. Our train of thought was we barely made it through having 3 without killing them or each other that why would we want all that stress and hell all over again? I still can't wait until they get older; at least old enough to talk and understand. Though over many conversations with my therapist, I've concluded that I'm just not one of the "newborn" lovers. Give me a 3 year old any day. So maybe I would think about having more multiples, even one more baby, if we adopted a 4 year old, LOL
Is the poll asking would we want a second set of twins/triplets? Or is if you had to do it all over again, would you rather have multiples or singletons?
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You know, I voted no, but then I was thinking ... if money really weren't an issue, then i could hire a nanny--especially a night nurse until they are STTN! and a housekeeper--and in that case I think it might be cool to have a set of twin girls in a few years.
You know, I voted no, but then I was thinking ... if money really weren't an issue, then i could hire a night nurse until they are STTN! and a housekeeper,maybe a mother's helper to make sure they all get enough individual attention--and in that case I think it might be cool to have a set of twin girls in a few years.
We would like to have just ONE more, so we do think we'll try to get pregnant again, and we know that we have to accept the reality it could be multiples. ?So, yes, we'd do it again, but I suppose we'd prefer not to... ?Does that make sense??
The main reason I say yes is because I'd like to give my frozen embies a chance at survival. I never ever in a million years thought this would be an issue for me but it gets more difficult with each passing day to think of "discarding" them.
Add to that that twins are an amazing gift and you've called our no $$ or PTL issues. : )
Re: POLL: Would you have twins again
Okay, duh I just realized there were only 2 votes and I'm one of them.
ha ha ha
My first response in my head was NO. Then I saw that it said without money issues or PTL etc.
I guess if I could have a magic wand and go back in time...I'd do it again if they weren't monos.
If the question is, would I do it again in ADDITION to what I have now...NO WAY IN HELL...
?so which is it meant to be??
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You know, I voted no, but then I was thinking ... if money really weren't an issue, then i could hire a nanny--especially a night nurse until they are STTN!
and a housekeeper--and in that case I think it might be cool to have a set of twin girls in a few years.
You know, I voted no, but then I was thinking ... if money really weren't an issue, then i could hire a night nurse until they are STTN!
and a housekeeper,maybe a mother's helper to make sure they all get enough individual attention--and in that case I think it might be cool to have a set of twin girls in a few years.
Ok I have to admit that I voted Yes even though I don't really have twins yet..... I'm just so excited...
Either way...A second set of twins or regarding your first time...I meant it more of second set....
Um, I DID have twins again! The question I guess is would I have twins a THIRD time???!! But I think it's safe to say that we are done!
The main reason I say yes is because I'd like to give my frozen embies a chance at survival. I never ever in a million years thought this would be an issue for me but it gets more difficult with each passing day to think of "discarding" them.
Add to that that twins are an amazing gift and you've called our no $$ or PTL issues. : )
Nicol