what's a polite way of putting "no kids allowed" on a baby shower invitation? I hate saying it, but my mom is paying Per plate at my shower and there could be anywhere from 10-15 kids on top of an already 80-90 person invite list.
Baby girl #2 on the way!

Re: Need some good wording...
Address the envelope as Mr. and Mrs...etc.
usually if we want family or children we just put, Mr. and Mrs. so and so and family.
people usually go by what is written on the envelope.
Maybe something like 'we kindly request that this baby shower for X and X be an adults-only affair.'
I would put "Adults Only".
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Naomi Rose
Definitely! I had like, 7 kids at my shower that their mothers just brought -- the kids names were absolutely not on the invitation, and we didn't even think of it since I couldn't imagine even thinking of bringing my children to a shower without a really good reason.
Really? We have never had a problem with this.....but I take your word for it......there are all kinds of tactless rude people.