Problems with being touched?

tiffjames2

Does anybody else feel icky when being touched?  DH and I cuddle at night, and he always touches my boobs. Lately, it feels absolutely gross. Especially the nipples.  He doesn't understand, even though I know it's because I'm pregnant; I can't explain it otherwise.  It's kind of funny, but I do feel bad pushing him away.  Touch me anywhere else but the boobs.  It's not that they hurt, it's more like the rubbing, touching sensation feels so gross!!

Does anyone else know what the hell I'm talking about!!  LOL!!

taciboo25

I just don't want to be touched at all...boobs and anywhere else! I feel just gross and hate being in contact with anyone. Even when DH's feet get too close to me at night I freak. He's getting quite sad about it

mslaura04

I feel you completely! They are awfully sensitive right now and even my bra can irritate them!

DanielsWife

It'll get better when you hit 2nd tri or so.

DiscusCoach

I am the exact opposite right now - I like being touched (especially there). I will say that even the slighted hesitation on his part has been cause for extreme reaction on my part. I feel hidious, gross, like a troll if he isn't right there as excited as me. My self esteem has been on a pretty big swing this week and I am normally not like that. Poor DH.

FLVintageBride

Ever since I had my DD 5 years ago I've been very weird about my boobs.  I used to be able to go without a bra but now I would never dream of doing it (and it's not b/c of sagging or anything).  I slowly got to where I didn't mind being touched as much, but now that I'm PG again, I'm starting to feel that same icky feeling about it again.

Pennylane824

I am finally in the mood and getting over my fear of having sex due to spotting.

Kristri07

Strange enough, I hate it when he rubs my back! It makes me really nauseous and I always wind up vomiting... Anywhere else is ok though

k_leigh_d

DanielsWife:

It'll get better when you hit 2nd tri or so.

 

again. up until week 12, i just wanted to puke and not be touched AT ALL. things are SO much better now. 

DanielsWife

k_leigh_d:

DanielsWife:

It'll get better when you hit 2nd tri or so.

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again. up until week 12, i just wanted to puke and not be touched AT ALL. things are SO much better now.?

exactly?

SarahJane89

I'm the exact opposite and can't get enough of it. He's the one that is being that way.

notelizabeth

DH tried spooning last night.  except the weight of him against my back made me wanna hurl.  he's a big mush, so i think he's a little hurt when being affectionate makes me wanna hurl.  it's just the pressure of someone touching me.  my kitties snuggling on me does the same thing. 

PrincessByrnes

I didn't let DH touch me whenever I felt nauseous and usually when he did even when I wasn't nauseous I would start feeling that way haha but it's finally gone away!!! and i got the sex drive back! woohoo!!