Pregnant after 35

I quit my job

of 7 years around the time we conceived. ?I am regretting my decision ONLY because the benefits are a little better at my job than DH's, and the extra income would have helped with a baby on the way. The conditions at work were really?atrocious though and I dreaded going in every morning to an overwhelming workload and dysfunctional management. ?The final straw was being told I had to start working weekends for no additional pay.??I'm still pretty peeved about the way I was treated after so many years of loyalty, long hours, extra duties, etc.

We planned for me to stay home once we had a baby, and reviewed our finances before I quit, but it's still a little scary to be without a job right now. ?I'm debating whether to look for another job or do some temp work until the baby is born. ?Or, I could stay at home and be a housewife...

Is anyone out there doing o.k. on one salary during the PG? ?

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Re: I quit my job

  • My husband and I aren't struggling, but if we only had one salary we couldn't afford our rent. So I'm working and will continue working after the baby is born. Though I am lucky to be working for my family business and can take the baby to work with me?plus work shorter work weeks?until he/she is 6 months old.

    We'll check into day care when the baby is born (or just before) to see if we can afford it at all. I'm not so sure. I hope to find a new, better-paying job in early 2010. I love my parents, but it's time to move on (work-wise). They understand, thankfully.

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  • We are doing OK one one salary. I am still on my severence and was smart enough to save a large chunk of my salary before I was laid off last month.  I have been on interviews early one, but now that I am almost 5 months, it would be much harder for me to find a job in my field, which requries the ability to stay late at the drop of a dime. 

     I am worried, bc the economy sucks and will continue on this path for a few more years. I have pondered taking a temp job, under the table. The money here is good for nannys and I could give up 15-20 hours during the week. 

  • We've been okay with one salary, but the boy makes decent cash and we don't have particularly expensive tastes. We have an older car and don't really buy a whole lot of stuff. Our only splashy outlay is an annual trip to Europe, where FI's from. If we lived differently then I reckon one income would be pretty tough to get by on though.
  • Maybe you can do some temp work? You wouldn't feel guilty about leaving the job for maternity and meanwhile you can make some money until baby is born.

    I was laid off in September and have been on a handful of interview and I can't even find a temp job right now. I have many years of experience in my field and an impressive resume but since I'm not in healthcare, there just aren't enough jobs out there right now. I was making $60K and now I can't even land a job that pays $35K! It's very depressing. We're getting by with DH's salary and my unemployment benefits but once those are gone, we won't be able to make it. I stress about that every day but all I can do is keep applying and hope that I can at least get some temp work to tide us over. In a few weeks I'll definitely start to show and then no one will hire me full-time.

    It's tough out there. Honestly, I would not have quit a steady job but I understand your reasons. Hopefully you'll have better luck than me and find work soon. GL!

    Me: 44 DH: 42. DS born healthy at 40 weeks 8/24/09. TTC since then with no luck or ART. Surprise BFP 8/6/14... MMC @ 8 weeks 4 days... Miss you everyday sweet baby angel.
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