WDYT? To tell or not?

mags2041

So, I'm pg.  And I don't care if all of you know. (hee hee)

But we aren't telling friends until 12wks or so.

A good friend of mine just found out she's pg after her 2nd round of IVF and 2.5yrs of TTC.  She told me today, they found out yesterday.  I didn't tell her about me because I want her to have her moment.  We're going to lunch, just the 2 of us, this weekend and I'm considering telling her.  I almost feel like I'd be lying to her if I withheld my own pg.  I'd def make it clear that I'm only telling her and we're not sharing with our other friends yet.  But, then again, I want her to still have her moment.

So, would you tell or would you wait?

 

MelandJeff

Well, she already had her moment, didnt she? I think she would be thrilled if you shared with her.

And, congrats to your friend, what a battle for  her.

marrymemylove

Congratulations!

Yeah I would tell her. Otherwise it will be weird when you do tell her. But definitely tell her to keep it close (both because you weren't going to tell people yet and its nicer for her to have some unique time in your group).

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Sept17.05Bride

I would wait until you are ready to tell everyone else.

oparcm

tell her and congrats!

Marchmamma

I would wait until after you went to lunch.  Congrats to your friend.

Mrs.JDD

I would tell her, but only if mh knew I was going to spill the secret to someone...I wouldn't want to tell someone and have him still feeling like he can't tell anyone, kwim?

DevonPow

I would wait until you tell everyone else.

katie277s

I think it's ok to tell her.  And I bet she will be thrilled to share this experience with you.