My quick story is that we ttc'd for three years. ?We found out through IVF that we make seriously crappy embryos, the RE even asked me if I lived on or near a toxic dump! ?I started thinking about adoption about a year and a half ago and have tons of info from the local agencies in my desk but promised DH not to bring them out until we were totally done with ttc. ?
We are going to workshops with two different agencies in the next few months and I just ordered four books(lol) on adoption. ?We do need to get our finances in order since we paid out so much during the past year and a half with fertility treatments so it will be a while before we officially start anything because there is only so much debt I can handle at one time.
That's that in a nutshell! ?I am looking forward to reading all of your stories so that when the time comes for us to get the ball rolling I will have a better idea of what to expect.?