My feelings are hurt.

HeatherMary

wow.  I read that to my dh and he just said wow, is he going to be in the dog house.

heather05bride

Hey there!  I am have got to say your DH was a total -ss for saying that.  I am sorry but even my husband who is a trainer and expects dedication and commitment out of his clients and loves very fit clients would NEVER say that, nor has he complained about my crappy eating and love for Ice Cream.  I have even said "Oh, i look so gross"  (as i am in that cubby look faz) but he just says "Babe you are pregnant and carrying our baby!  You don't look gross"  That is what he should say.

No DH should ever think about saying that to any pregnant wife.  Especially right after your b-day!  It was very sweet of your mom to bring you shopping and the shirt is totally cute!!  I have seen a lot of ugly maternity clothes and saw a lot when I tried shopping today with our little selection at ON but please that shirt is not ugly...

Tell him to get a life!  And lay off, and from some of the other posts replies it seems you DH may have a history of this.  And I noticed you are both pretty young.. and I am sorry you have to go through this but I think some of his problem  may be his age.  I had some past BF who may have said something like this.  I realize you just got married but please if he keeps acting like this wake up and give you and your baby what you deserve!  HAPPINESS!!   No one deserves to be treated the way you were.  It may be hard at first but in the long run you'll be happier! 

 Good Luck!  And go kick some -ss!

CalinsBride

heather05bride:

  And I noticed you are both pretty young.. and I am sorry you have to go through this but I think some of his problem  may be his age. 

I really don't think his age has anything to do with it. I've been with my Dh since we were 19 and he tells me I am beautiful every single day, whether I have zits, need a shower, have gained 20 lbs, or am wearing the fugliest clothes I own. Her DH will not change with age, he is just not a nice person and does not deserve her or any woman.

PrimaandGee

Well don't let him control how u feel.  Take that power away.  Strut your preggo stuff baby!  That was mean and I am sorry he said that.  Hope you know that you are beautiful and this is a wonderful time!

JCM052707

CalinsBride:

heather05bride:

  And I noticed you are both pretty young.. and I am sorry you have to go through this but I think some of his problem  may be his age. 

I really don't think his age has anything to do with it. I've been with my Dh since we were 19 and he tells me I am beautiful every single day, whether I have zits, need a shower, have gained 20 lbs, or am wearing the fugliest clothes I own. Her DH will not change with age, he is just not a nice person and does not deserve her or any woman.

whew just read through all of this... 

I gotta agree with this. You can be a sorry excuse for a man at any age. It's no excuse. I too have been with my husband for 9 years (we're 25/26 now) and I never once have taken any sort of abuse like that from him and he wouldn't dare speak to me, or anyone, that way, whether he was 16 or 40.

 

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I"m so sorry your husband would say that to you.. Cheer up, you're beautiful otherwise he wouldn't have married you to begin with...

Guys say the meanest things sometimes when they don't know how to express their feelings..

 

EdwardsRUs

Oh geez... I am so sorry!!  I wish I could just give you a BIG HUG!!!  I totally get what you're going through, my EX was the same way when I was pregnant with our son.  The emotional abuse continued after DS was born and eventually I just had to leave.  It was the best (and yet somehow hardest) decision I've ever had to make.

I would say maybe you should look into counseling to see if it would help make a difference in his opinions.  I wish you the best of luck!!! 

nargelica

What?! I think that top is downright sexy! My husband wishes I would wear more tops like that b/c he thinks the v-neck accentuates my boobs and the tightness of the top accentuates my cute belly. You should not be made to feel sad like that b/c it is not easy being preggo! You deserve all the hugs in the world. You're beautiful b/c you are making another human being. No dude can do that and no dude would look halfway good as us if that were true. Sorry, i'm getting all riled up over here!