Rubbing it in your face!

nicolesspirit

So Saturday I did my best sucked on my Zofran and made a venture out a to a huge B-day bash for one of my husbands Family Practice residents, her husband and about 30 of her friends! So when we get there she's asking all about the baby and my husband is talkign none stop about it and then we sit down to a nice coupel whom are also pregnant, so a hour passes and our friend is completly shitfaced (not something she does). So later I and another friend of hers are helping her walk to the next venue and she says stop stop can I just feel your belly and I laugh and say sure and just conitune talkign abotu how sick I am what a drain it is but how excitign it is as well and then in her druken stuppor she says two weeks ago I had a misscarriage ( she and her husband had waited 5 years) So I stand there looking dumbfoudned as does her friend and in reaction I just say Oh God and here I am being all complaning and pregnant, rubbing it in your face and she responded saying "yeah I know" and kinda stumbled off, I know she not begrudging me but to hear a secret from someone when their in pain and your oblivious is saddening!

Has this situation or something like ever happened to any of you?

nicolesspirit

sorry for spelling errors I must have spell check off and am a lazy proof reader! (oops)

kc10786

That is happening to me too. My brother and SIL have tried for 3 years and are going down in March for IVF. And here DH and I are and we got pregnant on BC! It was super hard telling them! I feel like anytime someone asks me about being pregnant or symptoms of that I am rubbing it in her face!

hisprincess06

That's sad.   I have not been in this exact situation but I have stuck my foot in my mouth plenty of times before and it always sucks.

AMYfromKY

That's rough.  She didn't tell you so of course you couldn't have known, but now that you do you should make sure to make it a point not to complain at all about pregnancy.  Also you should let her know that you are always available to talk whenever she feels like it. 

SDSwife

Way off the subject, but my hubby is in med school. He's thinking about going into peds. We've been together for 9yrs and I couldn't wait any longer to have a baby so.. Anyway how is life as a resident? I know he's gone all the time. We live in NC , but I would like to move to the ATL GA area when hes a resd because they have such good benefits. Fill me in on what to expect, thanks

Manders127

What year of school is he in?

LilCMom

I will say it does suck to have everyone talk about it...I have never miscarried but when through two years of trying and then six months of fertility treatments before we finally got pregnant. I didn't get upset that people were having babies, it was the fact that it was so easy for everyone else I knew to get pregnant that hearing about it made me a psycho. Each time a friend told me she was pregnant it was a little bit of a stab. But you definitely didn't know about that girl's situation and it totally sucks that you were in that position!