How much do you have to dislike someone before you just don't notice they exist?

marrymemylove

Me, I strongly dislike 2 people I can think of, ever in RL, and 2 online.

But the online ones are like a trainwreck, I can't look away. The RL ones I have long since ignored.

Apart from them I haven't really had strong negative feelings about anyone really. Not liked perhaps, not much more than that.?

MelandJeff

Well, you got me at the "2 online"

Who might they be? Inquiring (read:nosey) minds must know.

marrymemylove

I don't name names. I don't even think they would know who they were. But obviously speculation is free and unstoppable.

kevschickee2

yes yes you need to spill 2 names lol

marrymemylove

don't worry kevs. We've insulted each other before this but you are not even close to being 1 of them. :-)

r9stedt

I'm sure I'm one!

femmegem

I would guess FFM is one of them from the way I've seen you two go at each other. But I really don't pay that much attention normally so I could be wrong.

As for your question, though, I think actually disliking someone makes it hard to not notice they exist. It's not a passive thing, KWIM? I don't really dislike anyone all that strongly, but I do have some people who annoy me and I can't help but notice them. LOL.

kevschickee2

marrymemylove:

don't worry kevs. We've insulted each other before this but you are not even close to being 1 of them. :-)

 

ahhh I think we are growing on eachother lol

gracendantho26

Not to be overly mean but a lot of the time I log off (obviously not everytime) when I see you here.I log off because I am not good at ignoring someone. Sometimes you seem to have a normal reply but a lot of the time you kind of talk out of your butt about stuff you can't possibly know about. Sorry.

marrymemylove

That's ok grace I think you talk out of your butt too. But I don't log off because of anyone. On principle. And I guess that's the difference. I do mentally log off from people IRL. Says a lot about the non-threatening nature of online forums.

gracendantho26

Hey, if you agreed with my logic I'd be scared!