3rd Trimester

Stressing out a bit!

 DH and I were talking last night. He always teases me because every time someone gives me clothes I go through them about 5 times before I wash them and put them away. I was a little on the defensive side thought last night and yelled at him that they were the ONLY thing baby I had to look at! He asked why I am trying to rush things... Ok I never went out and bought myself baby books, I got them at the Library and gave them back when they were due back. I didnt go crazy looking through baby name books because they didnt have those at the Library, so I did it online. I havent bought ANYTHING for the baby and DH wont let me paint the room, but also wont get up off his lazy a$$ to paint the room or help me plan anything AT ALL! Why cant he just give me a little bit of the benefit of the doubt and let me have fun with clothes since I have nothing else to paw over...phhhHuh? Ok I feel better after that!

Re: Stressing out a bit!

  • I remember this stage where I felt like NOTHING was being done. Trust me, before you know it, you will find stuff to consume yourself with. I agree DH needs to get a little more proactive -- but you have time!

    Hope things start looking up from here and wait till you have your shower...you'll have a load of stuff to go through then, not just baby clothes! Haha

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  • Wink Thanks...I always feel better when someone else tells me its ok, Im not CRAZY...because I sometimes think I am...LOL
  • Its good to still have some stuff to do towards the end.  I would be afraid otherwise that I would be just sitting consuming myself with when the baby was going to come.  Although I think I will probably still do my fair share of that too.
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  • My DH didn't kick into action until about 1 1/2 weeks ago.  It was like he didn't even realize we were having a baby.  He's finally getting excited.  I though he never would.
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