My wake up call.

KKMMex

So this morning I was telling Sarah that her grandparents (my ILs) were coming over on Friday to see her, and she says, "Mommy, I don't think you like Mimi."

I just let it go but OUCH.  The truth is I don't like Mimi (my MIL) but I didn't know Sarah was picking up on that.  The MIL relationship has been a thorn in my side ever since Sarah was born.  ILs live in this area and it's been a constant struggle for me to set boundaries and manage those relationships while staying at home with the girls.

I'm vowing today to let go of the dislike and bitterness I feel toward my mother-in-law.  The girls need to feel that the people they love also love each other.  Ugh - this has been one of the worst parenting moments for me.  ((

TexasHarmony

Ouch.  It is amazing how peceptive they are.  I read an article in Cookie (I think) a few months back from a woman whose relationship with her MIL changed after her kids were born.  It was short, but eye-opening. 

rayskit10

they really are so intuitive. and amazingly smart. as moms, we live and learn.

CallMeKel

I can totally relate. I always liked my MIL fine but things turned a tad sour when they were living with us after the hurricane. I have tried really hard not to say/do anything to make it evident to K....because I really don't want her picking up on that. But it's hard....very hard.

Your statement: The girls need to feel that the people they love also love each other. really rings true to me.