DD is just about 3 weeks old. I want to think about establishing a bedtime routine. She sleeps in our room still, but i would like to get her washed up, dressed for bed, read her story, give her her bedtime bottle and have her fall asleep in her room. On the one hand, I know she won't really get it yet, but i think its good to establish it and have her grow into it. DH thinks it is too early. Also, her bedtime feeding is not at a consistent time yet so he thinks the routine would be a waste still. I figure she can not tell time yet, so as long as the routine is in place it should not matter if it is at 5pm or 8 pm.
Opinions? When did you start the bedtime routine?
Re: When did you start a bedtime routine?
we tried to start a routine and at 3wks you didn;t even think ot try to get DS in to bed before 10pm becuase he would not have it. As he got older is gradually got earlier and earlier, Now he goes to bed a 7pm.
we already started one. DH works nights, so we have so far established jammie time and a quick wash up, along with bedtime bottle in bed w/ me. DD sleeps in our room and we just got her days n nights fixed, so everything else is within a 2 hr variation on time, but at least she knows...i think...
when i go back to work, i'll need to get her full bath into her night routine too
DD #1 passed away in January 2011 at 14 days old due to congenital heart disease
DD#2 lost in January 2012 at 23 weeks due to anhydramnios caused by a placental abruption
We started at 7 weeks, but it still isn't really working.
I would have hated trying to do it at 3 weeks, but that's just me. It wont hurt anything for you to try if you want to.