This is how my baby and I ended up co-sleeping. He only sleeps when someone holds him or if he feels cuddled. A swing has also worked. He sleeps with me every night now though and he sleeps really well.
Do you have white noise? Turned up pretty loud. We use ocean waves, but you can also use static.
For the first week or so, we swaddled and used a sleep positioner to help dc feel 'held'. We put Cole's head below the pillow of the sleep positioner so he would feel something on all sides of him.
We also have a vibrator on the crib that we turn on when we first lay him down. It helps soothe him back to sleep if he stirs. https://tinyurl.com/bszqt4
We no longer swaddle or use the positioner, but still use the vibrate and white noise.
Re: sleeping ???
Do you swaddle?
You can try warming the bed with a heating pad before you put her down to make it nice and warm - like you.
Ditto warmth.
Also maybe sleep with the bassinet sheets one night and then put it back in so the bassinet has your scent?
Do you have white noise? Turned up pretty loud. We use ocean waves, but you can also use static.
For the first week or so, we swaddled and used a sleep positioner to help dc feel 'held'. We put Cole's head below the pillow of the sleep positioner so he would feel something on all sides of him.
We also have a vibrator on the crib that we turn on when we first lay him down. It helps soothe him back to sleep if he stirs. https://tinyurl.com/bszqt4
We no longer swaddle or use the positioner, but still use the vibrate and white noise.