Over Reacting? (Long Vent)

missbritt_07

DH and I went to a surprise party last night for a girl who was turning 16 (she is like my little sister and hey, I'm only 19 so not that far off) Anyways, we were more like the "parents" watching everybody.

Well after we ate pizza I started to feel sick. At like 10:00ish I went downstairs and snuck away to a computer to get away from the noise and to just sit. Well it was 11:00 when everyone left and before DH even came down to check on me. He knew I wasn't feeling well and everything but didn't come down once to make sure I was ok.

We had to drive home in different cars because we had both cars there and once I got home and just got into bed he did the same... still didn't ask how I was. Then he got up for work this morning and left.

I need to be getting things done around the house but I still feel like crap and becuase I just don't want to.

Grrr.... sometimes I hate feeling emotional.

CrazyCurls

I hate feeling ignored too, I would just causually say, hey, why didn't you check on me last night?  It would have been nice to get a hug or something.  Then you're not making a huge deal out of it but you're letting him know for next time

Ace1599

Yeah, I agree with the pp. I would maybe mention to him that a hug or some concern would have been appreciated. But at this point being that it is the day after a full-blown fight about it might be over-reacting.

It stinks being alone in your own pregnancy head sometimes too. It is just so frusterating that our DH/SO's have no idea what is going on and sometimes are not very attentive to our emotional needs right now.