DH and I are not sure what we want to do. Part of us is ready to try another IVF, but part of us is ready to move to adoption. It just seems that at least with adoption there is more of a guarantee (even though I know it isn't). I am totally afraid of having another miscarriage or spending thousands of dollars for an IVF that doesn't work when we could put that money toward an adoption. I'm sorry if this is a rude question, but is a failed adoption as bad as a failed IVF or a miscarriage? Is it more of an emotional roller coaster trying to adopt vs. going through fertility treatments? Thanks girls.
Baby #1: 19 cycles, failed IUI, and 1 + IVF 3-5-07
Baby #2: 12 cycles, 1 failed FET, natural miracle but m/c at 9 weeks then another natural miracle that stuck! 9-30-09