sick...

baby_mama88

I know its probably nice to have a place like thebump to tell your story to...but whenever I read a post about somone who has had a loss I get sick. I feel like Im going to throw up, or have a m/c myself. I feel for the women that have gone through a loss and I am not trying to be insensitive, but everytime I see a post like that...ugh. There is plenty to worry about just being in the first trimester. Does anybody else feel like they are going to have a m/c just reading about it?

jenerally

thatgirlang

Well.... no, I don't feel like I will m/c from reading a post about one. But it does make me VERY sad.

KacieLeigh

I know you don't mean for this to sound insensitive, but it does.  I understand that reading them makes us worry that it could also be our fate but just reading about one is not going to cause one.  These women are going through a VERY difficult time and need someone to talk to and this is where they find support.  Sorry if you aren't happy with that, but I certainly won't be asking them to move somewhere else.

*bunny*

no, i just feel incredibly sad for them and count my blessings.  i hope you aren't suggesting they should keep it to themselves for our sake

Abc123

I ditto J completely on this one.

 

BTW this may come off as very insensitive.  So be prepared if you get flamed.

localbs05

KacieLeigh:

I know you don't mean for this to sound insensitive, but it does.  I understand that reading them makes us worry that it could also be our fate but just reading about one is not going to cause one.  These women are going through a VERY difficult time and need someone to talk to and this is where they find support.  Sorry if you aren't happy with that, but I certainly won't be asking them to move somewhere else.

Well said my dear.

I LUBBINS YOU!

KacieLeigh:

I know you don't mean for this to sound insensitive, but it does.  I understand that reading them makes us worry that it could also be our fate but just reading about one is not going to cause one.  These women are going through a VERY difficult time and need someone to talk to and this is where they find support.  Sorry if you aren't happy with that, but I certainly won't be asking them to move somewhere else.

Ditto

wec5473

If those posts bother you so much, don't read them.

baby_mama88

Oh Dear. I didnt mean for it to sound like I was saying they should go somewhere else. I feel for these woman. But as soon as I  read a word that like 'bleeding' 'red' 'cramping' my physical reaction is to click the red x pull my knees to my chest and breath deeply...that was my question... does anyone esle react this strongly?