Toddlers: 24 Months+

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This is something that came to mind the other day and then I forgot - but the PP made me think of it!  :-)  I heard something on the radio that made me think of this - not an IRL situation!

If you husband were to divorce you and tell you he was gay and then move in with his lover - would you want your DC to spend time with him and his lover?!

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  • still his Daddy. So yes.

    But we are very open to all relationships, SIL is a lesbian and herself and her wife have adopted 3 children and have given them great lives!

    However I couldn't imagine DH being gay!

  • If he was gay... I'd hope the gay lover was a cleaner and great shopper and ask them to live with me. my husband and my house are a mess!  lol. 
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  • imageHalo79RN:
    If he was gay... I'd hope the gay lover was a cleaner and great shopper and ask them to live with me. my husband and my house are a mess!  lol. 

    Ooh ooh ooh and that the lover did hair and would fix my hair every morning.

  • Of course I would. If my husband were to love someone else then they must be pretty special to him. Man or woman it doesn't matter to me.

    My feeling is a man is someone I can't compete with. That makes it not about me. It's about my husband's needs for something I can't bring to the relationship. It's not a failure on my part in my eyes. It's nature. You can't fight nature. 

  • JulieandBen - I feel the same way - as long as my child is being loved then she has a right to be with her father.
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  • yeah, still her dad...

    but I would be totally wigged out and confused and need therapy. I might spend the rest of my life wondering if I looked like a guy... or if I was totally?deluding?myself for our whole relationship.?

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    JulieandBen - I feel the same way - as long as my child is being loved then she has a right to be with her father.

    Same here. He'd still be her daddy. I'm also a child of divorce, so I strongly feel that kids need to maintain relationships w/ their parents.  

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  • Definitely, he's an amazing father and I wouldn't keep them apart.
  • For sure. Half of my uncles are gay, so I have zero problem with that at all.
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