This is something that came to mind the other day and then I forgot - but the PP made me think of it! :-) I heard something on the radio that made me think of this - not an IRL situation!
If you husband were to divorce you and tell you he was gay and then move in with his lover - would you want your DC to spend time with him and his lover?!
Re: POLL
still his Daddy. So yes.
But we are very open to all relationships, SIL is a lesbian and herself and her wife have adopted 3 children and have given them great lives!
However I couldn't imagine DH being gay!
Ooh ooh ooh and that the lover did hair and would fix my hair every morning.
Of course I would. If my husband were to love someone else then they must be pretty special to him. Man or woman it doesn't matter to me.
My feeling is a man is someone I can't compete with. That makes it not about me. It's about my husband's needs for something I can't bring to the relationship. It's not a failure on my part in my eyes. It's nature. You can't fight nature.
yeah, still her dad...
but I would be totally wigged out and confused and need therapy. I might spend the rest of my life wondering if I looked like a guy... or if I was totally?deluding?myself for our whole relationship.?
Same here. He'd still be her daddy. I'm also a child of divorce, so I strongly feel that kids need to maintain relationships w/ their parents.