I DD it

kittylove

Thanks everyone for your responses, I did NOT DD because of what KMRS wrote so PLEASE don't accuse her of that. I DD because DH and I are working on things and I felt like I shouldn't have posted something so personal. Thanks for the support ladies

KellyMarierockstarwife

I'm glad you guys are working on it! 

 

Ugh, the first few months are so freaking hard. Just try to remember that it is hard for him too. I think men feel so much pressure, especially about being able to provide...it's not like they *enjoy* being gone all day working. But they also have a hard time expressing that. Having a kiddo and being open and honest can definitely do a lot as far as appreciating each other!

kittylove

KellyMarierockstarwife:

I'm glad you guys are working on it! 

 

Ugh, the first few months are so freaking hard. Just try to remember that it is hard for him too. I think men feel so much pressure, especially about being able to provide...it's not like they *enjoy* being gone all day working. But they also have a hard time expressing that. Having a kiddo and being open and honest can definitely do a lot as far as appreciating each other!

 

It took me an hour of talking to get out of DH what you just told me in a few moments. Maybe next time I will just post on the nest and ask all of you guys what is going on in his head, rather than asking him.

KellyMarierockstarwife

kittylove:

It took me an hour of talking to get out of DH what you just told me in a few moments. Maybe next time I will just post on the nest and ask all of you guys what is going on in his head, rather than asking him.

 

Ahhhh, that totally made LOL. I'm glad you got it out of him though!