Frustrated with DH

AdamsGirl81305

Like a lot of people, we are getting a snow storm today.  They are calling for 8 inches of snow by 4, then sleet and ice on top of it after that.  For the last 2 days I asked DH to work from home today.  I didn't think the chance of him driving to work today when he could work from home was worth it.  Well, apparently I was wrong.  He drove in anyway.  A normal 30 minute drive took an hour this morning. 

We live in a homeowners association that takes care of all of the plowing.  However, we need to move our cars so they can plow our parking spaces.  If you don't move your car, you risk the entire parking section (ours is 8 cars) not being plowed.  I am on bed rest and cannot go out there and do it.  DH has no intentions of coming home to move my car.  I tried explaining to him that it is not fair to our neighbors to not have their spaces cleared because my car is not moved.  

He thinks my priorities are messed up because I am concerned about our neighbor relations because of my car.  I think he is being a pain because he decided to drive to work in bad weather when he knows that I am on bed rest and there are things that need to happen with the snow that I can't do.  Also, what if something happened and I needed him here right away.  In this weather, it would be very hard.

Sorry, just really emotional right now.  I get really worried about something happening to him and not being able to do this on my own.  He doesn't see it that way. 

doubleblessings08

Aww I'm so sorry he is being a pain today. I don' tthink men ever really understand how we feel about things. What we see as important doesn't really matter to them. I love my H but sometimes he really irritates me. I hope he has a safe commute. Try not to woory. I know it is easier said than done. {{HUGS}}

KLyn

sorry he's being unreasonable... can you ask a neighbor to move the car for you?

AdamsGirl81305

I thought about that.  But DH doesn't want me going outside because I might slip and fall.  So, I am supposed to just sit here and watch the snow removal happen all around us.  I really feel bad for my neighbors because it isn't their fault, but they are getting the short end of the stick.   

MetalMonkey

I'm sorry.  Men can be real dumbies sometimes.  I know you feel bed but try not to get too upset about it.  I hope your DH has a safe commute home.

april062604

i hear your frustrations of feeling totally trapped on bedrest. ?i used to get really annoyed. ?is there any way you can give one of your neighbors a call and explain that you can't move your car, but if they want to move it for you in order to get their space clear you'll be glad to pass the keys through the door. ?just a thought...if you trust them and their nice people i'm sure they wouldn't mind. ?sit tight. ?take some deep breaths.