This is such a newbie question, it's not even funny.
I am starting to question if i should go to an OB instead of an RE, since my first RE experience was that of a drug pusher.
I thought we could do the necessary testing first, have time to go over the results and then consider our options. But when I went last week for the RE consult, he was ready to go full force with IF drugs and procedures without even doing any testing. Of course, he was happy to do the testing before actually starting, but it felt like he had already made up his mind about the course of action before seeing the test results.
I don't currently have an OB - my primary care doc does my annual exam, and I already know her course of action would be to put me on Clomid. So I have the chance to either make an appt with another RE, or find myself an OB.
Will an OB do the tests (SA, HSG, bloodwork, etc.), or should I try to find an RE that is more on the same page as I am?
Re: Stupid question: OB vs. RE
We're going through my ob's office due to insurance. So far they have done an SA, hsg and bloodwork. I think it depends on the doctor...
There is a bit more detail on my blog, but he barely looked at my charts, told me that he didn't even bother with Clomid because the success rate was to low for him, and told me he would put me on injectibles right away. Call my crazy, but injectibles is a huge jump for me, especially without any testing.
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TTC#1 Chart
TTC#2 Chart
IUI #1 - #4 (repronex trigger) = BFN
IUI#5 on 10/28/2008 ** BFP 11/10/08 ** EDD 07/21/09 *** It's a GIRL (07/14/09)
med/treatment free BFP 06/28/10. EDD 03/05/11 *** GIRL #2 (02/23/11)
beta#1 @ 17dpo = 1296 .... beta#2 @ 19dpo = 3034
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TTC#1 Chart
TTC#2 Chart
IUI #1 - #4 (repronex trigger) = BFN
IUI#5 on 10/28/2008 ** BFP 11/10/08 ** EDD 07/21/09 *** It's a GIRL (07/14/09)
med/treatment free BFP 06/28/10. EDD 03/05/11 *** GIRL #2 (02/23/11)
beta#1 @ 17dpo = 1296 .... beta#2 @ 19dpo = 3034
it's the Bug and Baby Belle!
ditto find a new RE. They are all different. You just need to find one you are comfortable with and who listens.
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Ditto this.
Take with a grain of salt, because I'm not totally familiar with all this stuff. But it seems to me like you are best off with an RE, if you need to move on to procedures or something stronger. RE's can certainly do the testing and dx - it just sounds like your current RE doesn't want to be bothered. OB might be able to test and dx - but if it ends up beyond the scope of care, you will need the RE anyway.
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