TMI question

loveybear

i know, i'm a PW today but i have a ton of work to do and i don't want to do it.

anyway, here's my question:

i'm 4 months pp and i thought that sex would be normal by now. but you know that sore feeling you get after you have a whole lotta sex? i have that all the time. and dh and i haven't had sex in....gosh i don't even remember. weeks, at least.

has anyone else experienced this? does it get better? i never want to have sex b/c i always feel like i've been having it for days!

Lucky_Dragonfly

I had a small tear down there and even after I a was all healed up and even now no matter how wet it is down there that spot is sensitive when DH first goes in. And then afterwards it feels like I'm all wide like I just had DS all over again. (Yes very TMI)

radiokate

I still have issues and it's been almost 6 months! The doc said I just healed tight (I had a third degree tear) and the scar tissue there is uncomfortable... He said there's an estrogen cream you could run down there and that "could" help, but I haven't gone there yet... I've just found the more I do it, the more comfortable it is... But when I have to wait a week because of a period... Man, that first time after feels like first time ever sex!

radiokate

* rub down there... (sorry, I'm at work, so I'm a little distracted!

loveybear

radiokate:

I still have issues and it's been almost 6 months! The doc said I just healed tight (I had a third degree tear) and the scar tissue there is uncomfortable... He said there's an estrogen cream you could run down there and that "could" help, but I haven't gone there yet... I've just found the more I do it, the more comfortable it is... But when I have to wait a week because of a period... Man, that first time after feels like first time ever sex!

haha dh will love to hear this! i've been avoiding b/c i'm sore but i guess i just need to suck it up and get on with it.