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VanessaRae9608VanessaRae9608
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ok - I need some reassurance -

So I had a methotrexate shot for a "suspected" ectopic on 12/16 - (I had been spotting since 11-28 finally stopped 12-30) Well I am now still waiting for AF to show- we are supposed to be abstaining from conceiving until my 2nd cycle after m/c to have some testing done.

So last a week ago last Wed. on the 7th I had all my regular ovulation signs (EWCM, sore nipples, light cramping) but we are not temping right now so I can't be 100% sure....

Well last night we weren't very "careful" and now I am freaking out - I feel like a stupid teenager -

So please send me all the AF dust you can find and any reassurance is welcome...I am so scared that I will mess something up if I get PG again right away - even though my OB didn't say we couldnt try right away after the mtx shot - but the fertility nurse specialist wants to do the testing and I don't want to mess up the timing and wait even longer for a baby.

I will never be irresponsible again until we are really TTC.

Confession over.

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  • Mrs.EmmaLouiseMrs.EmmaLouise member
    I'm sure everything will work out fine!  If you really did ovulate on the seventh, and only just now had unprotected sex, you wont concieve.  GL, and please keep us posted!!!  ((BIG HUGS))
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  • esquiremommaesquiremomma

    (((blowing lots of AF dust your way vanessarae))))

    I hope everything turns out OK for you and DH. It sounds like you may have missed the most fertile time based on your O date. GL! 

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  • adkhikeradkhiker member
    I feel that your body won't get pregnant unless it is ready.  It sounds like you missed your fertile time anyway, but if it were to happen, then I believe your body was ready.  GL.
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  • mybobblemybobble

    I got af 6 wks after getting my mexotrexate shots. We were told to wait 3 full cycles before ttc again. Sex was the last thing on my mind due to the fact that I had so much nastiness coming out of me because of the shots. We didn't have sex again for a while. I was still sore and frankly I wasn't feeling up to it.

    I've heard that the shots can stay in your body up to 3 months and that's why they have you wait before ttc again.

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