We have been calling our baby PJ since my BFP. It stands for My nickname from my husband + Jr. so, not a real name. We have gotten so used to saying it, and have come up w/ NOTHING so far that we love, that last night DH says "can't we just name him PJ?"
would just calling him PJ be totally weird???



Re: boys name help...is this a weird idea??
that's really funny that two of you have said that. never even crossed my mind!!
and yes, that was one of my arguments for it being a bad idea...when he is 50yrs old, being PJ would sound kind of weird. There are no P names that I could get on board w/!
***WARNING*** This is just my opinion.
I think initial names are tacky and back woods for some reason. I have no idea why. But again, that's just me. Do whatever you want to do with your baby.
Would it be weird? Yes. Give him the option of a full name, and call him PJ exclusively if you wish until he's able to decide what he wants to be called. This way, as an adult, he can use his full name professionally.
I think it's cute, but you can't just give the poor kid initials. You'll have to make up some names to match them.
Patrick James
Paul Jeremy
Peter Jacob
SOMETHING.
Could you come up with a name combo that uses those initials and just call him PJ for a nn?
DH is Patrick John
You don't have to stop calling him PJ, just don't name him PJ. He can be Parker Jacob on his birth certificate (or when you're angry) and PJ the rest of the time, until he gets to choose.
Definitely give them a first and middle name with the initials P.J. - don't just name him "PJ." I used to work in a health clinic where a young patient had two letters as his first name. It never appeared correctly in the electronic system (it would automatically decapitalize the second letter), and his parents would freak out when the new receptionists would ask for "his full name" (thinking it was initials)... and on, and on. It was a bad, ugly mess. You don't want it to be you. It would just be a constant struggle for your child, too.
But just calling him "PJ" would be cute. I also think of pajamas, but I'm sure people wouldn't once they knew him.
My step son's actual name is Teddy and he's spent his entire life telling people, no it's just Teddy it's not short for Theodore or any such thing. It drives him nuts.
I would give him an actual name with those initials. Imagine him the President or head of a major company. An actual name other than PJ might be handy!! It also gives you the opportunity to yell his full and proper name when he gets into trouble!!!?