Had a miscarriage and am struggling to get help.

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The OBGYN's office has no interest in answering my questions or helping me now that I am no longer pregnant. No one else I talk to seems to have the same experience as me and I'm losing my mind because I don't actually know what is happening to me and nothing I read and no one I talk to helps.

I've made peace with what has happened. But I have been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, I feel disgusting and exhausted, and am told to just go to the ER where I know they'll just tell me nothing is wrong and send me home with more medical debt. The most distressing part about this whole situation is the constant bleeding and not knowing when it will stop and my body will go back to normal. My husband and I would like to try again as soon as we are cleared to do so, but my OBGYN seemingly has no interest in or time to discuss the future with me. I fully intend to see a different one as soon as I can but I just feel so hopeless and scared and confused and nothing I read and no one I talk to has an answer for me.

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Hi I'm so sorry you're going thru that. Yes definitely find a new Dr that makes you feel heard. I just had a miscarriage today and feel so heartbroken. My Dr didn't seem interested in my bleeding concern either due to my age. That didn't make me feel supported at all.