Where Is My Period?

knottie7d34c552e2e21238

<span>So I missed my period last month and I had s*x on April 4th with an expired c*ndom and then on the 21st of April without a c*ndom and the guy finished inside me. This has happened once before and I made an appointment with my GP and did a blood pregnancy test which came back negative, I did buy a dollar store test and it was negative, but I didn't use my first pee of the morning when I took that test. I don't really think I have any symptoms, I am craving chocolate mainly chocolate ice cream with hot fudge and brownie pieces, I have had some cramps, My boobs are okay, I don't have any nausea or vomiting,, one of my family members was cooking fish and I did gag and throw up in my mouth a little, I am a bit more tired too, I am eating a bit more than I normally do, I also smoke w**d and cigarettes so maybe that's causing some of my symptoms, I don't get the munches when I smoke weed either in case someone is wondering if I have the munches. </span>

emeraldcity603

Oh yeah, you are definitely pregnant. The fact that you are suddenly craving chocolate ice cream with hot fudge is a sure sign. Gagging over the fish?! Another sure sign. The blood test must have been wrong. I would demand a retest because this is undeniable evidence of pregnancy. 

knottie7d34c552e2e21238

I missed my period in January but got it mid February then had a period in March and missed my period in April (last month) the blood test was done in early February which came back negative a week or so later i got my February period. Now I missed my April period and the fourth of April I had sex with an expired condom then on the twenty-first I had unprotected sex where the man came inside me. I did make an appointment with my GP for May 12th at 2:00 pm Central Time, for a blood test.

aloha_mama

Chocolate cravings >>>>> medical blood test 

emeraldcity603

knottie7d34c552e2e21238 said:

I missed my period in January but got it mid February then had a period in March and missed my period in April (last month) the blood test was done in early February which came back negative a week or so later i got my February period. Now I missed my April period and the fourth of April I had sex with an expired condom then on the twenty-first I had unprotected sex where the man came inside me. I did make an appointment with my GP for May 12th at 2:00 pm Central Time, for a blood test.

Sounds like you have irregular cycles. You need to find a method for tracking your cycles so you can know if you actually ovulated. You don’t just miss a period. Your period is delayed because you didn’t ovulate when you thought you should have. 

knottie7d34c552e2e21238

I was diagnosed with PCOS, but was on Provera to help regulate my cycles and have been off Provera since September and they had been pretty regular.

emeraldcity603

Your period will show up after you have successfully ovulated. So you can’t say for sure you’re late until you confirm ovulation and know your luteal phase length. 

britters314

Just because your cycles have been regular lately doesn’t mean they’ll stay that way forever, especially with PCOS. It definitely just sounds like they are getting irregular again.

Also, it seems like you are not trying to get pregnant, so I’d suggest finding a more reliable form of birth control than condoms, especially since you don’t know when you are ovulating.

knottie7d34c552e2e21238

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<div class="QuoteText">Just because your cycles have been regular lately doesn’t mean they’ll stay that way forever, especially with PCOS. It definitely just sounds like they are getting irregular again.

Also, it seems like you are not trying to get pregnant, so I’d suggest finding a more reliable form of birth control than condoms, especially since you don’t know when you are ovulating.</div>
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I don't like birth control never have I've been off of it for a long time, I am trying to get pregnant, I talked to my OBGYN and she is helping with my PCOS, I'm a practicing Catholic so I am not allowed to use birth control, I used the expired condom at the guys request, the guy was my ex-fiance and I had told him no to sex but he kept bugging me for it so I caved in, I really didn't want to have sex with him, but at the time we agreed to be Friends With Benefits, I do have a boyfriend now.
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emeraldcity603

Your ex finance doesn’t sound like someone you need to even be friends with if he can’t take no for an answer when he asks for sex. 

I have been unwilling to take birth control myself but in replace of that I learned FAM. There are different methods you can use to track your fertile window and ovulation. It’s common for Catholics to use one of these methods as a replacement for birth control. 

britters314

It sounds like you are trying to get pregnant with someone you aren’t in a serious relationship with then? Honestly I’d suggest just finding a way to become a parent on your own over that. There are options for that - donor sperm, donor embryos, adoption. (I know the Catholic Church is against using donor sperm, but they’re also against extra-marital sex and you’re doing that, so maybe you’d be okay with it? I think donor embryos are allowed by the church.)