Photo Sharing

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Is it wrong for me to not want to share every photo I take of my kids with my MIL?We have a 2.5 yo and a 12 week old, both boys. They aren't the only grandkids, but on my husband's side of the family our kids are the closest to them, in distance and relationally. They babysit for us at least 2 times a week while we work, so they see them often. My husband has a good relationship with his parents, and I get along well with them. My MIL takes pictures of them a lot, which is fine. She doesn't have social media, but she does send them to her friends and family, and prints photos of them and has them around her house...all fine. Where I'm struggling is when my husband or I take photos of our kids at home and my husband automatically sends them to her. I mentioned something to him about it and he said I was being rude and selfish. I guess I am being selfish, but is it really so wrong of me to want to have a few photos or videos of my kids just for me? Like I said above, she sees them all the time, and has tons of photos. I've shared photos I take on my phone of our kids less with my husband because I know he'll want me to send them to our group chat or to him so he can share with his mom. I'm not trying to be controlling or mean, or keep her out of our lives. I just want some of the memories we make to just be ours...not sure if anyone else has experienced this or not.