Anyone have any tips for a first-time pregnancy mom? I was expecting crazy dreams but not such vivid/surreal dreams.. I just hit 15 week mark and had a night terror (yes, sweat dripping off of my 1000 degree Fahrenheit sleeping body) of a miscarriage. I’m trying not to dwell on it too much, but can’t shake it out of my head. I’m terrified. So far, all of my test have indicated a low-risk baby boy. Just looking for re-assurance, I guess? Has anyone else had such vivid night terrors? How did you cope?
Re: 2nd Trimester Vivid Nightmares
Do not fear you are not alone. Take the miscarriage nightmare as something that God has protected you from! I also have bad dreams about my fears that I don't share or say out loud but I am so grateful when I wake up from them knowing that they are not my reality. For me prayer works wonders! I hope you will find comfort in your Creator aswell.
My last night terror, 2 days ago, left me completely dysregulated and screaming in emotional pain. I don't want to share specifics but in my dream I was apathetic and in a violent rage towards my first born. It was torturous to know the misconduct while dreaming/not being able to stop and knowing how i was affecting my child, even if it wasn't real.
My fear is to experience the apathy and to be so disconnected that my postpartum rage/anxiety and dysregulation persist with this pregnancy, despite having a great support network.
Talk with OB if these dreams disrupt your peace. Our hormones are raging whether we feel it or not..if they don't listen- find someone who will.