@momo221b I hope someone chimes in, pregnancy can be so lonely even normally, a bump friend in a similar place can be so awesome for mental health and wellbeing. Mad respect to you and even though I have a life partner, if you ever need an ear you can private message me 🫶🏻
So I reviewed my lab work that I got, only one value was low, but not enough for concern. It’s no lie that I wasn’t able to eat anything very nutritious especially things with iron. So I told my OB that I’m just violently ill still, she got me a stronger medication and I’m FINALLY able to eat. First on the food list… iron rich foods. I’m feeling so much better. I just feel weak because I lost so much muscle mass the last 3 months from feeling so horrible. Found out I’m having a Boy! My first pregnancy we had our daughter, she was a cake walk compared to this boy. I’ve been all over the place emotionally and physically. I’m thrilled to be having a boy, but let’s just say I’m excited to meet him 😂 I hope the next kid is a girl 🥴
@buckaroo1622 I was thinking of you the other day! Congratulations! My first one, I had a boy. And omg the first trimester was horrible. ER visit, couldn't eat, I was already on the small end for my height etc. I lost over 10 pounds, which was not cool for how tiny I already was. My DR. Refused to give me anything. 👎I'm glad they gave you something. 🩵🩵 I hope you start feeling better!! 🩵
this is a question for those who aren’t first time moms! i am 13 weeks now and keep feeling what i would describe as tingling or almost like soft vibrations in my lower belly. i know they say most ftm won’t feel the baby move for a long time but when i move my belly with my hand it starts again, is this how y’all would describe baby flutters? if not, how would you describe them?
Hi Ladies, I have a baby boy due at the June 17th and I was wondering if anyone had thoughts on how stress affects babies in utero, I’m 14 weeks with Baby #4 and I’ve been dealing with a lot of stress surrounding the biological Dad of my other 3 kids. I feel really drained and run down, I’ve been having a hard time sleeping and eating, I know that’s not good for growing a baby but I’m also worried all this stress is getting to my unborn baby and stressing him out. Thank you in advance for any advice 💛
@knottie, stress is somewhat of a grey area, we used to think that it heavily affected babies in utero with devastating consequences, we don't now, the studies seem to find that it doesn't do too much of anything but anecdotal evidence is still wary if it. I don't think anyone knows for sure but I'd definitely reach out to a therapist or someone who can support you through whatever you're going through, I'm sorry you're in this position.
The new medication they gave me so so helpful for nausea, but I was reliant on it. Found out if I follow an IBS safe diet that I’m no longer nauseous. So I think I’m just having pregnancy induced IBS. Which is super cool 😂 but I haven’t had to take anything in DAYS for nausea!!! I’m so happy and can finally enjoy this pregnancy.
My OB doctor told me to take unasom and vitamin B6 for nausea and it does help, but zofran has helped me immensely. I did not have any nausea or vomiting with my first two pregnancies but this one has been rough.
Anyone here gotten a gestational diabetes diagnosis? I took the three hour glucose test on Friday and failed two of the four draws. I was honestly shocked because, while I am by no means a health nut, I get a minimum of 6000 steps a day, I eat several servings of fresh fruits and vegetables every day, and I only let myself have sweet treat a couple times a week. There is no history of gestational diabetes in my family, despite my sister gaining 100+ lbs during her pregnancy. Additionally, my baby is measuring quite small for his gestational age (around 15th percentile) and that is the opposite of what they would expect for someone with gestational diabetes. I know that this isn't my fault but part of me is still struggling with guilt about it. I also don't have the time or energy to add exercise into my routine, or the money to eat healthier than I am. I am also really sad to say goodbye to the occasional scoop of ice cream or piece of candy.
At my appointment for GD I was told by the phlebotomist that it has more to do with baby’s DNA inherited by dad especially. The gene for GD is already in the placenta so the eating and exercising helps but it doesn’t unfortunately determine the outcome. I hope that puts you at ease and know that it isn’t all on you and that you were doing your best.❤️
Hi everyone! I’m a new mom — my baby was born this June, and I’m so grateful and in love with my little one. But to be honest, I’ve also been feeling quite anxious since the birth.
I worry about whether I'm doing everything right, if the baby is getting enough sleep and food, and on top of that, I’m starting to stress about my postpartum recovery and whether I’ll ever feel like myself again, both physically and emotionally. I know this is probably a normal part of new motherhood, but it’s hard not to feel overwhelmed sometimes.
I’d love to hear from other moms — how are you coping with the early days? How did you handle postpartum anxiety and recovery? Any tips, kind words, or personal stories would mean so much. Thank you in advance to this wonderful community 💕
Re: The great big questions thread
Mad respect to you and even though I have a life partner, if you ever need an ear you can private message me 🫶🏻
I know that this isn't my fault but part of me is still struggling with guilt about it. I also don't have the time or energy to add exercise into my routine, or the money to eat healthier than I am. I am also really sad to say goodbye to the occasional scoop of ice cream or piece of candy.
I worry about whether I'm doing everything right, if the baby is getting enough sleep and food, and on top of that, I’m starting to stress about my postpartum recovery and whether I’ll ever feel like myself again, both physically and emotionally.
I know this is probably a normal part of new motherhood, but it’s hard not to feel overwhelmed sometimes.
I’d love to hear from other moms — how are you coping with the early days? How did you handle postpartum anxiety and recovery? Any tips, kind words, or personal stories would mean so much.
Thank you in advance to this wonderful community 💕