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TFAS w/o April 22

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What number are you trying for?

Month/Cycle?

WTO/TWW?

Ages of other child(ren)?

Any thoughts about this cycle?

Any questions?

Rant/Rave?

GTKY: Are you doing anything with your kids for Earth Day?

Re: TFAS w/o April 22

  • What number are you trying for? 3 (first two are adopted)

    Month/Cycle? Stopped counting

    WTO/TWW? WTO

    Ages of other child(ren)? 5 and 6

    Any thoughts about this cycle? Still benched

    Any questions? Nope

    Rant/Rave? DS1 told me he had a dream last night that he got a baby sister (he knows we are working on an embryo adoption) and he said it was the best dream ever. Hopefully it comes true soon!

    GTKY: Are you doing anything with your kids for Earth Day?
    We are pretty eco-friendly regularly, so we didn’t do anything special, but we did talk about what Earth Day is
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  • @britters314 I hope his dream comes true. 

    Month/Cycle? 1 

    WTO/TWW? TWW but likely out. 

    Ages of other child(ren)? 4 turns 5 next month. 

    Any thoughts about this cycle? Likely a bust. Little bummed that our first real cycle back after break is out due to his training getting moved up. 

    Any questions?
    Not right now 


    Rant/Rave? Kiddo got sick the same day my husband left and the house is trashed. It’s all fine but I’m in my feelings today. 

    GTKY: Are you doing anything with your kids for Earth Day?

    her school organized a field trip to the recycling center in town and we added a tree to the orchard. 
  • What number are you trying for? 2

    Month/Cycle? 1ish (but I don't think we're going to try this cycle since I'm still getting all my reproductive immunology tests / report / plan done and I'm too scared to try before we have that.) 

    WTO/TWW? n/a

    Ages of other child(ren)? almost 13 month

    Any thoughts about this cycle? See above

    Any questions? There's like A HUGE delta between where I am now and where I need to be in order to be "on my functional medicine plan" and I have no idea the steps to take to bridge the gap. I've reached out to my functional medicine doctor to see if she can help me put together a plan to get back on track. 

    Rant/Rave? Sleep training is both my rant and rave. We're finally sleep training our DS because bedsharing stopped working around month 10, and my husband (who's been out of work since November and has been able to help with 4 night wakes) is starting his new job on Monday. So, we needed to do something. We're working with a sleep consultant and doing the "chair method" and last night (#3), DS only woke up 1x to feed. Nights 1 and 2 were beyond miserable. 

    GTKY: Are you doing anything with your kids for Earth Day? Losely dressing him for Earth Day Theme Week at daycare. Which meant I bough 1.5 outfits at Target which is actually the opposite of being Earth friendly. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • What number are you trying for? 5

    Month/Cycle? 6/6

    WTO/TWW? Tww

    Ages of other child(ren)? Nearly 7g, 5b, 3b, 1.5g

    Any thoughts about this cycle? We had good timing, but we also had good timing the previous 3 months, and no dice, so I don't even know anymore.

    Any questions? I'm considering getting accupuncture to help conceive, anyone else gone that route? Also started Metformin this cycle, though more for its labeled use than fertility side benefits.

    Rant/Rave? Rant: hubs thinks my weight is why it's taking so long this time, despite being at my lowest since 2018. Rave: only 1 kiddo currently in diapers, yay.

    GTKY: Are you doing anything with your kids for Earth Day? 5 goes to a forest preschool, so they did something cool, but I haven't logged on to see photos yet.

    @acleverusername welcome back, and welcome to tfas! Hope your stay is brief :)
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  • @sejica I tried acupuncture for a few cycles and did some herbs as well. I definitely noticed a difference in my cycles, specifically my LP was longer and my temps post-O were higher, which is what we were aiming for. It didn’t lead to pregnancy, but I’m glad I gave it a try and I’ll probably do it again when we do an FET.
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