Just found out I'm pregnant

knottie3d9092a30f79d9b4

Well this is a weird one. So I'm a mum of 4 and youngest being 18 months. I've found out today I'm pregnant, which was not planned. In fact I'm not sure how it's happened considering we've only done the deed about 3 times since the youngest was born! My partner really does want another child and is so vocal about this. I've not yet told him.
I've had no symptoms at all, no periods as recently finished breastfeeding. I could feel movement and my uterus feels over my belly button so I'm assuming I'm quite far gone.
I feel so upset and didn't envision another child as felt complete.

I will be ringing to register the pregnancy on Monday but just need to get it off my chest and get some advice on how to tell my part who will not be happy

harpseal135

You said your partner expresses they want another, then you say not happy.  Which is it?  

The only thing you can do is be open ND honest.  You did the deed 3 times, you risk the chance of pregnancy.  This really needs to be brought attention and discussed between the two of you.  

knottie3d9092a30f79d9b4 said:

Well this is a weird one. So I'm a mum of 4 and youngest being 18 months. I've found out today I'm pregnant, which was not planned. In fact I'm not sure how it's happened considering we've only done the deed about 3 times since the youngest was born! My partner really does want another child and is so vocal about this. I've not yet told him.
I've had no symptoms at all, no periods as recently finished breastfeeding. I could feel movement and my uterus feels over my belly button so I'm assuming I'm quite far gone.
I feel so upset and didn't envision another child as felt complete.

I will be ringing to register the pregnancy on Monday but just need to get it off my chest and get some advice on how to tell my part who will not be happy

virtaur

Frequency of sex has no bearing on ability to conceive so idk why you’d be confused. I conceived from the one time my H and I had sex in a year lol soooo I would go to the appt first to see how far along your are and then tell your H. Unless you told him there was zero chance of conceiving he can’t really be mad about it. Takes two to make a baby.