2nd miscarriage this year and losing hope 😢

mdixon428

I suffered a miscarriage in February and now I'm having another one in July. I only got to 6.5 weeks this time...one week longer than last time.
It is taking such a toll on my body physically and emotionally. I'm debating to wait a while and try again later or jump right back in. I'm also 34 and that ways on my mind heavily. I want a child more than anything but I just don't know anymore.

stormageddon-darklordofall

@mdixon428 I'm sorry for your losses.  RPL really sucks.  Did your doctor say anything about referring you to an RE?  Or do they want to wait and see if your 3rd PG is successful or not first?  I wouldn't give up hope yet.  Early PG is fairly common, and if you do happen to fall into the slim margin of those of us with RPL, you can go get testing and about 50% of those who do that end up with a diagnosis and maybe it is something easy they can do to help your next PG be successful and result in a healthy, living baby!  

mdixon428

Would you get tested first or try for the 3rd time? My doctor wants me to decide my path. 

stormageddon-darklordofall

Me, personally?  If you have no other living children and only the 2 MCs, and your insurance will pay for the testing, I'd go for testing.  

knottied315b1b679821f33

This is crazy because I also had miscarriages this year those same months.  I am 40, have a two year old and really want to give him a sibling but it’s very disheartening after two MC this year 😞