This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but
have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your
thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long
journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with
infertility, and it becomes a whole new ballgame. The road to
infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make
this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another.
Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have
something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (if you've been):
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):
How are things going?:
Any questions?:
GTKY: Who is your favorite YouTuber or TikTok-er to watch?
Re: IF Testing & Treatment w/o July 17
Diagnosis (if you've been): RPL, blocked left tube.
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): off the bench, meeting with the RE in a few weeks. We got the testing back on my last loss
its not more or less likely to happen twice, so the “good” news is this doesn’t put us more at risk for future loss.
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): WFAF
How are things going?: I live in Vermont, and we are moving to Boston area. It’s a cluster. I think we are going to have to delay the move due to the condition of the roads.
Any questions?:
GTKY: Who is your favorite YouTuber or TikTok-er to watch? Smudge the mini cat and crew. It’s silly cat videos of one specific cat. Aren’t cat videos why the internet was invented?Diagnosis (if you've been): RPL, DOR
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): medicated cycle
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): letrozole 5mg CD3-7, then progesterone 200mg at P+3
How are things going?: Going pretty well. I’ve been feeling really good (thank you low dose thyroid meds) and I have been very distracted from this whole baby making thing because we put in an application for a dog from our local shelter. I should hear this week! 🤞🏼
Any questions?: NATM
GTKY: Who is your favorite YouTuber or TikTok-er to watch? Honestly not trying to be one of those people, but I don’t have TikTok and the only thing I watch on YouTube is free yoga videos and Tiny Desk. @charmedlifex3 I might need to check out this mini cat though!Sorry posted in the wrong week. Please disregard as there is no way for me to delete this post. Thank you!
@sontk This is the current week’s thread, you were in the right place!
Diagnosis (if you've been): Unexplained
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): Natural cycle
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Acupuncture pre-O, but no more until next cycle
How are things going?: This cycle is probably a wash, so I decided to not do more acupuncture until next cycle. I’m more okay with the extra waiting than I thought I’d be though
Any questions?: Nope
GTKY: Who is your favorite YouTuber or TikTok-er to watch?I don’t do TikTok, but I do watch YouTube. My favorite is probably Not Just Bikes, but he doesn’t upload videos super often, so my favorite for regular uploads is City Nerd.
@maggiemadeit do you do Yoga with Adriene on YouTube? When I used to do yoga a lot she was my go to I love her
@britters314 do you like acupuncture? My RE recommended it for when we start IVF and I keep forgetting to look more into it
Diagnosis (if you've been): PCOS
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): natural cycle
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): waiting and waiting
How are things going?: we’re still just waiting on the results of my carrier screening panel, so I’m glad I have long natural cycles haha. I’m on CD25 and still no +OPK. I’m not temping though so I guess I could’ve missed a surge. My normal unmedicated cycles are around 35 days so I’m guessing it’ll be a long one. If my results come back before CD35 I’ll have my RE induce a period so we can just start this darn thing already. I’m not fertility related news, we’re going on vacation this week! Spending the week in Lake Placid, NY with my family which should be really fun.
Any questions?: no!
GTKY: Who is your favorite YouTuber or TikTok-er to watch?I watch a lot of food tik toks. I feel like my whole feed is just recipes anymore lol but we’ve found some really good stuff!
@charmedlifex3 I've heard about the crazy flooding in VT! Stay safe!
@maggiemadeit awww I'm sorry you you didn't get the dog! Was there another you could put and application in for?
@optimisticoctopus enjoy your vacation!
Diagnosis (if you've been): wild and crazy immune system
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): benched
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): got all the testing taken care of this cycle. I just need to get the eye exam to confirm I can go on a couple immunosuppressants if necessary. First follow up should be on 8/1! Still waiting for the clinic to get back to me to confirm the date. I responded with the time I was available after hours so I'm not sure I'm truly on the books.
How are things going?: Work and life have been so busy and crazy for the last month+. Things are finally going to be calm for a bit. Except for the fact that we are now pretty serious about looking for a big lot to build a new house on.
Any questions?: Our sex life is pretty non-existent at the moment since life is busy. How do you get yourself back into the groove to TTC when FW happens? Being benched we're not even bothering HIO.
GTKY: Who is your favorite YouTuber or TikTok-er to watch? Currently I'm watching Charlotte Dobre on YouTube. I don't have TikTok either but she does reactions for a lot of TikTok videos so that satisfies my need to know what's going on in TikTok-land. Back when I did yoga for a full year I was doing Yoga with Adrienne videos! Such a calming voice.Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26