Ryan's Birth Story.

littlemamas21

Hi Everyone,
My name is Cayla and my fiancé name is Zack. I was 27w3d when I had our son Ryan. He weigh 1lb 14oz and 13in on May 5th at 9:11pm. On May 6th at 9:44am so at 12 hours old he passed away. Our son also only had one kidney so thats the other reason he passed away. I am 9 weeks postpartum
I have a incompetent cervix and I was also in preterm labor. It's been 2 month which means he would of been 2 months old. Doctor wants us to wait 6 month before trying for another baby she said at my 6 week postpartum check on June 15th. So we are trying but not perventing either. My doctor also said at my 6 week postpartum check that everything is good. My doctor said that she dose not want what happend to our son to happen again so thats why she wants us to wait 6 month. My first postpartum period was on June 14th it was not bad at all. So when I get pregnant again I will get a cerclage and I will also get progesterone to put up my vagina. I will be high risk. Thank you for listening to our sons story.

ashleyp625

I am so very sorry for the loss of Ryan. I am sending you all the best when you are ready to try again. 

mamabeartoo3under3

Im so sorry for your unimaginable loss. If it was a vbac birth the 6 months is important but its much more serious if it was a csection as you risk uterine rupture. Your rainbow will come❤️ 

jeep4x4mom

@littlemamas21 so sorry for your loss of sweet baby Ryan. Let your body and mind heal for a moment, that rainbow baby will come. When the time is right call your OB asap for progesterone the earlier the better. I pray for your angel and for a future healthy rainbow baby. You are strong, you are brave and you are powerful.