February 2023 Moms

Weekly check-ins February 13

EDD / Weeks + Days: 


Baby is the size of a(n):


Team blue/pink/green:


Upcoming Appointments: 


How are you feeling?: 


Rants/Raves: 


Questions:


GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)?

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Re: Weekly check-ins February 13

  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 39 weeks tomorrow 

    Baby is the size of a(n): pumpkin 🎃

    Team blue/pink/green: 💖

    Upcoming Appointments: phone appointment with midwife tomorrow 

    How are you feeling?: Slow moving

    Rants/Raves: my midwife is bringing two midwives in training to the birth (both I met and liked) and my friend who is a doula will be here too so between the 4 of them and my husband, and my hypnobirthing tracks, I feel I have a really good support team for the birth. 

    Questions: natm

    GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)? I average on a week early (which is tomorrow) and that would be nice but I've had the 18th (Saturday) stuck in my head almost the whole pregnancy. I went by conception instead of my cycle this time and being after a miscarriage, that really changed when I ovulate (which is normally earlier than expected).

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  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 39 + 3!


    Baby is the size of a(n): pumpkin 🎃 and I can tell😅


    Team blue/pink/green: pink💕


    Upcoming Appointments: tomorrow!


    How are you feeling?: overall not terrible but this morning I woke up with some back pain. It’s mostly on my left side in the middle of my back so I must have just slept weird.


    Rants/Raves: no real rants other than I’m just ready for this baby! And already annoyed with the texts and calls🙃 my mil is sweet but shes addicted to worrying and I’m at the top of her list of people to worry about lol. Both sister in laws have had terrible traumatic births so she’s been scarred. She’s been pushing me to ask about inducing which I don’t want to do! I’d much rather give her the chance to come naturally but to try to give her peace of mind I set some dates to be induced once I’m 41 weeks. I don’t think it worked but it is what it is! As for raves, I guess I’m excited that baby is almost here! I feel lucky to have had a very uneventful pregnancy with no complications so I’m just hoping labor and delivery is the same!


    Questions: FTM here and I feel like I’m not showing any signs of early labor or that it’s even close. What were your first signs of labor the first time around? 


    GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)? i feel like February 20th has been a day I’ve thought about a lot! I’m due the 18th and with the way things have been going I don’t think she’ll be coming early but I’d definitely take just 2 days late! 

  • @paigemm23 I didn’t show signs until it was time with my first. Like 5 hours before I had her. I did have to poop a lot that day but nothing crazy or noticeable until I reflected on it after. My February guy was induced so it was totally different. But for him I didn’t have any labor signs aside from mild contractions until they broke my water. 
  • I keep checking back here every couple of days looking forward to everyone’s birth stories
  • cpk3535cpk3535 member
    edited February 2023

    EDD / Weeks + Days: 40W tomorrow- Valentine’s Day due date


    Baby is the size of a(n): Pumpkin or a watermelon…or a little baby boy 💙


    Team blue/pink/green: Blue 💙


    Upcoming Appointments: This morning for checkin and an NST scan for baby. Not holding out much hope that they tell me I’m dilated at all, but I’d be into a pleasant surprise!


    How are you feeling?: I’m feeling pretty good- sleep is so uncomfortable and as we talked about last week, I’m peeing all the time, in teaspoon sized amounts for the most part. I’ll ready for this to be over so we can enjoy this baby!!


    Rants/Raves: My MIL has been a big help over the last week. My FIL is here as of yesterday to join her and my parents get here sometime today, so the baby’s got an audience whenever he chooses to show up. I’m also somewhat feeling like Friday and into the weekend are going to be my days- both girls were 40W plus 3-4 days, so that would be just about right! 


    Questions: Natm


    GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)? See my last answer. Although, I’ve been kind of wondering if this guy somehow will be born on Valentine’s Day just because I’m somewhat hate Valentine’s Day and the whole fake holiday thing, haha. I guess he could give me a reason to love Valentine’s after all these years!

  • @itsjess627 thank you! That gives me some hope. I’ve come to discover I am not as patient as I thought. Out of all the unknowns that has come with pregnancy this is definitely the hardest!
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 39 weeks today

    Baby is the size of a(n): Human baby!

    Team blue/pink/green: Blue 💙

    Upcoming Appointments: Hopefully last midwife appointment thursday 

    How are you feeling?: I didn't sleep well at all, so I am super wrecked. I am worried I may have developed total gastroparesis, giving it another day and then I will call my doctor. Something is definitely making me feel super ill and I am genuinely tempted to just stop eating until birth to avoid making it worse. 

    Rants/Raves: Rant, see above 😅 Rave - just my boyfriend in general! He is an absolute sweetheart - basically everything on my to do list today he just took care of, although he has been at work, so I can just chill around doing absolutely nothing, sleep in the middle of the day, watch series etc. 

    Questions: NATM

    GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)? I think he'll be a punctual lil' fella like his parents. He's going to arrive on his due date, february 20th 😁

  • @seeds_of_joy that's so great that you have all of the support for the birth!

    @cpk3535 I am also not a big fan of Valentine's day.  I have an appointment tomorrow and when the girl was scheduling it she looked at me and my husband all worried and asked if it was ok.  The most we do is give each other cards and that's only if we remember. lol.

    @justkp so sorry you are feeling so crappy.  I got some deep sleep last night but it was for less than 3 hours and I'm going to be at work for another 8.5 hours so I'm going to be right there with you on being wrecked.

    EDD / Weeks + Days: 38+3

    Baby is the size of a(n): Winter Melon or a Speak and spell (or if you've seen Dane Cook a speak like the devil lol)

    Team blue/pink/green: Pink

    Upcoming Appointments: Tomorrow for a growth scan

    How are you feeling?: Overall good.

    Rants/Raves: Rave - We got some more things done this weekend to prep for baby's arrival.  I think we are finally in a good place and as ready as we can be.

    Questions: None

    GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)?

    @paigemm23 and @justkp I also think the 20th or maybe the 21st.  I'm due on the 24th but because of my high blood pressure, which is under control with medication right now, my doctor doesn't want me to go past the 20th so I'm am going to schedule an inductions for that day.  She seems pretty comfortable so I don't think she will come sooner on her own.  This is my first though so I don't really know what to look for or expect.

  • @justkp unless early contractions are what's making you "I'll"... 😉 That sounds rough though. It's hard having tummy problems but is common right before labor!
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: February 16/39w4d

    Baby is the size of a(n): pumpkin/watermelon, estimated baby last week at 8 lbs, 6 oz

    Team blue/pink/green: 💙

    Upcoming Appointments: Thursday for OB appt with membrane sweep, will schedule induction of labor for during week 40

    How are you feeling?: My mom is visiting which has been helpful. I'm getting nervous that baby won't come before she leaves on Feb 22! It's so hard to wait in uncertainty. Coughing a lot from baby taking up so much space/acid reflux. Waking up with very dry mouth most nights.

    Rants/Raves: none

    Questions: none


    GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)? Hopefully sometime this weekend!
  • @kamays54 You're still working full days? Oh my gosh! Fair play to you! Now I feel awful for complaining, I would never in a million years have made it through 8.5 hours of work today 😳 (Also - great feeling having sorted all the baby practicalities, feeling 'as ready as can be' 🥰)

    @seeds_of_joy Oh wouldn't that be wonderful 🥰 Here's hoping, I would definitely much prefer that to some GI issue that is going to cause me trouble for weeks 😅
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 2/24 38w 3d


    Baby is the size of a(n): Winter melon


    Team blue/pink/green:💚


    Upcoming Appointments: BPP today. Lactation Consultant tomorrow for help with antenatal colostrum collection. Midwife appt w/ NST on Thursday 


    How are you feeling?: Some fatigue. Some insomnia. Some urinary stress incontinence. The baby’s head is pretty low and I can feel it  push against my cervix uncomfortably throughout the day.


    Rants/Raves: BBP went very well today and the baby is now measuring 7lbs 8oz. I was able to slow down the growth of the baby by managing my gestational diabetes with the little bit of medication that I started at 31 weeks plus continuing my diet and lifestyle changes. It’s size is now in the 58% percentile instead of 75%. And more importantly, the abdominal girth went down to 71% percentile from 98% which reduces the risk of shoulder dystopia. And the baby is in the right position for a healthy vaginal delivery too! 🤞I hope I have the labor and delivery that I visualize and want to have.


    Questions: Of all of the social media bump groups that I participate in, this one is my favorite. Is there a platform that we will move on to keep in touch and support each other after pregnancy?


    GTKY: what day do you think your baby will be born (if they haven't been already)? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m hoping the labor and delivery happens around 39/40 weeks. I’ll start getting worried at 41 weeks.

  • @justkp don't feel bad!  I love my job for the most part and my boss is amazing.  I am a little envious that you had the option to nap though. lol.  My plan was always to work until it happened (as long as we were both healthy of course).

    @ttc3y that's amazing to hear about your BBP!  I hope everything goes the way you want to.  I'll be keeping you in my thoughts due date buddy!

    I second @ttc3y's question.
  • Update from today’s appointment…

    We first went into the doctor’s appointment and she said he’s fine, I’m still not really dilated and all that good stuff. She probed around uncomfortably and then sent us off to NST. While we were in there, they saw that the baby experienced a bit of a deceleration while I had a contraction, so after speaking to the doc, they sent us over to L&D for further monitoring. Still not feeling any big contractions, but some. I think they’re trying to decide if it’s to baby or my advantage that we stick around and try for an induction of some sort. After further explaining to the nurse the dramatic placental abruption that took place last time, I think there’s a better chance we might be going home without disturbing him today. We’ll see!! I’ll keep you posted 😊
  • I'd be happy to move to a different platform and keep up the support 💖
  • @ttc3y and @justkp I personally don't have Facebook but would love to keep in touch.  I do have IG and it's a way to keep up with some of the mom's from my other 2 bump groups after deleting my Facebook account.
  • Had a membrane sweep today. It was pretty uncomfortable, but I'm now dilated to 2 cm. Induction is scheduled for next Wednesday the 22nd. Feeling somewhat discouraged just because I'm getting so impatient.
  • @lucygracelaluz2020 I had a membrane sweep yesterday and felt the same. I’ve been crampy since but no real contractions and lost my mucus plug. I’m scheduled to be induced on the 26th but I really hope she comes before that! 
  • @paigemm23 any changes? I lost my mucus plug yesterday and had some bleeding and sporadic contractions. Hope you are doing well!
  • @ttc3y and @justkp and @seeds_of_joy and all who might be interested in continuing support: I have stayed in touch with other moms via GroupMe and WhatsApp. Those apps are more conducive to group chatting. Instagram is also a good way to stay in touch individually.
  • @lucygracelaluz2020 I had some bleeding last night which scared me a little. I started having more consistent contractions around 5am this morning but they’ve gotten more sporadic this afternoon. Probably got my hopes up too much lol. I hope things are progressing for you!
  • @paigemm23 you're on your way. Maybe things will start up for you again tonight. Still sporadic for me too! Hang in there. ❤️
  • @lucygracelaluz2020 I like the idea of getting a private WhatsApp group together to keep everyone in touch. I would probably be more open to sharing more personal info and pics too. I am not familiar with Group Me but open to trying it if that is a better platform for everyone else. 
  • I do not have WhatsApp  but willing to consider it!! Anything but Facebook 😆 Also if anyone wants to follow me/me follow them on IG, I'm under waterfall _chasing_light

    Is anyone else getting pressured through handfuls of text messages to have their baby...like now?! Oh my goodness...I would put it on airplane mode if I wasn't trying to keep an open line for my midwife, doula, people who will be watching my kids and occasional encouraging person who isn't just being nosey! I will tell people shortly after giving birth. 😵‍💫

  • No pressure to have the baby from family and friends yet but I think I’m approximately a week behind you @seeds_of_joy. I accidentally did not reply immediately to a neighbor’s text today and she was like, are you in labor since I haven’t heard from you all day?!?! 😂😂😂 no labor yet but definitely noticing needing to go to the bathroom more often and a wave of anxiety to get more tasks done. Not quite feeling ready for the baby to come, but not sure if I ever will feel fully ready as a first time mom. 

    I actually had a moment this morning feeling the fear of giving birth and the fear of pain. I allowed myself to sit in that discomfort and cried a bit. Gave myself some space and self compassion. The fear eventually lessened and I’m feeling better. But yeah, things are getting so real! 
  • @seeds_of_joy I've silenced my family group chat bc of the questions! It's hard to stay patient and with  others checking in it becomes more difficult.

    @ttc3y With the waiting, I've also been starting to get nervous with anticipating the pain of labor. Things are getting real.
  • seeds_of_joyseeds_of_joy member
    edited February 2023
    @ttc3y that having a good cry over the fear of it all is something I've done every single time. I think it's really normal and healthy and helps us come to terms with the task at hand.  I'm really focused on not allowing myself to get in the fear/tension/pain cycle this time but I even had a bout of anxiety on Tuesday because I felt like I was going into labor. Now I'm more anxious about when am I having my baby (I had all the others except my daughter by this point) and I'm crying all week because of the overload of all the emotions. 

    One thing I decided  is that I'm not reading anymore birth stories until I've given birth...unless it's specifically positive. Positive births are possible and one of mine in particular was amazing and I'm hoping this one will be very joy filled.
  • @lucygracelaluz2020 I don't have WhatsApp yet, but would be happy to get it and stay in touch with you all! 

    @seeds_of_joy More of an indirect presssure here. Texted my mom about the time for a handball cup final tomorrow, and she got back to me like 'will Max be watching it with you????'. And I'm there thinking it's highly questionable as absolutely nothing has happened yet 😂 
  • @justkp you never know! But yeah.... usually there's some signs that it's happening soon ..signs I've been having all week, so I thought. 🥴 I was so confident this was my week and I probably set myself up for this harassment of text messages!!
  • @seeds_of_joy The week is not fully over yet, fingers crossed 💜

    Incidentally I started having cramps, back pain and rather strong Braxton Hicks along with nausea shortly after my last post. Was enough for me to cancel tennis this morning (also so I could sleep, as I was awake 2 am to 6 am) - and this cancellation led to quite the test message storm from the people in the club 😂 I bet it'll be, like, another week from now or something!
  • @justkp unpredictable babies.... 😆
  • @seeds_of_joy Indeed 😂 I'm such an almost fanatically punctual type that everyone's been joking that he can only arrive bang on the due date. So I feel under a bit of pressure here at T-1 😂
     
  • Were your others timely? 
  • @justkp that's funny because without kids I tend to be early and all of mine were early. The earliest was 2 weeks. Two were 1 week early, One was 5 days early and the only other girl was 2 days early (which would be today). So not even being in labor 2 days early is so discouraging and that's silly. This time I went off of conception rather than my cycle because it was actually a miscarriage cycle and I knew the day I ovulated and conceived this one. So that makes me wonder if all the other babies were wrong. 😭😵‍💫🤷‍♀️🤔
  • Finally catching up on these. Would love to keep in touch with you ladies! I’ve really enjoyed this group
  • @seeds_of_joy Oh, that's quite interesting! That they were all early and this one where you know the precise date of conception is not!
    Ah, I'm sure she must be just around the corner, it would be weird if you were suddenly 14 days late or something 🤱
  • @justkp 😭😭😭 yes...it would be.
  • @amccurls you can send me your # to my inbox and I can add you. I just created the WhatsApp group!
  • Update on my pregnancy: I saw my midwife on Thursday and discovered that she was heading into vacation starting today (Saturday).  She offered to induce me on Friday and have the baby by Saturday before she heads out. I swear my brain left my body and I was numb for hours. I knew this might be an issue since I knew her birthday was coming up.  All of Thursday I was weighing out the pros and cons of whether to go in or not. After long conversations with my husband, crying, and deep meditations, I came to the conclusion that I needed to  wait but not too long as I am 40 weeks as of yesterday (Friday). So the current plan is hope to naturally induce and have spontaneous labor over the weekend and if I am not laboring by Monday, I’ll  start a slow induction process then with another provider in the practice whom I haven’t met. Wish me luck ladies! 🍀 I pray for spontaneous labor over this weekend. If not, I pray for an gentle slow induction to support a successful vaginal birth. 🙏🙏🙏
  • @ttc3y praying for you. I know it's hard being at the end with all the uncertainty! Have you felt any cramping yet?
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