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WTO w/o Jan 9

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Re: WTO w/o Jan 9

  • Month/Cycle: Month 13, Cycle 8

    CD: Cycle Day 22

    WAYDTGKU: Waiting for testing now. My husband mailed out his test today, so hopefully all is good on his end. Then I’m still waiting for my next cycle so I can go for bloodwork.

    R/R: I don’t even know if I belong in WTO or TWW at this point. My app says today is my peak, but my OPK is at .2 which is clearly not a peak. I know my doctor said to stop doing them, but I figure I might as well empty the box!

    CS/Q: Chart attached (not sure if I did it right) - it makes no sense. And I can’t do BBT because I don’t sleep (especially with a new puppy).

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  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD: 6

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, going to start OPK CD10 I think 

    R/R: possible TMI: Pretty sure cycle 1 started with withdrawal bleeding vs menstural because the start of cycle 2 was insane!! So glad that is over! 

    CS/Q: Not yet. 

    Me: 26     DH: 25
    DS1 -- 9/30/2016


  • stashattackstashattack member
    edited January 2023
    TW LOSS

    whelp here I am again. Just got the news. Waiting to figure out next steps. 

    Month/Cycle: 4/cycle 3

    CD: 1

    WAYDTGKU: grieve  opks tracking in my Fitbit app again  

    R/R: this fucking week sucks. It's been one thing after the other and this is just the shit icing on the shit cake. I'm just numb  

    CS/Q: nope. 

    Edit for updates. 

    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • @stashattack oh no, I’m so sorry! Sending virtual hugs
  • @stashattack I’m so sorry. I’ve been there and it really does fucking suck. Please join us over in TTCAL if you want. You’re not alone ❤️
  • @stashattack I am so sorry ❤️ sending hugs, virtually, to you. 
    Me: 26     DH: 25
    DS1 -- 9/30/2016


  • Thanks everyone. We are both just hurt and empty right now. This sucks. 
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • @stashattack I’m so sorry. ❤️ It truly is painful and you are definitely not alone. 
  • @AmMcc12 fingers crossed for you this cycle.

    @dmcgrew17 I feel you on not being able to temp. I'm up a lot during the night too. I hope all your tests turn out positive!!
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • @stashattack Thanks! We actually got my husband’s results Tuesday night and thankfully everything on his end is good! (Which makes me feel great and horrible at the same time because now I’m officially the problem). Now I just have to wait for my next cycle, whenever that will be, to get my Day 3 bloodwork. 🤞🏻🤞🏻
  • Month/Cycle:12/ natural cycle 1

    CD: 16

    WAYDTGKU:HIO, no opks because I am afraid of them.

    R/R: I should probably O in the next day or so, however, I am sick so.... who knows

    CS/Q: Nope

    Spoiler for History 

    Me - 30 DH - 32

    April 2009 - 8+ week MC
    January 2012 - BFP - DS Born 10/21/2012
    May 2013 - BFP - Twins MMC @ 13 weeks D&C
    Oct 2013 -  BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2013 -  BFP  DD Born 8/16/14 - Cholestasis at 36+5
    Nov 2016 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2016 - BFP  DD Born 6/19/17 @ 28+4 Severe Pre-E, IUGR, Cholestasis 
    Nov 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2019 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    DH Vasectomy Aug 2019
    Feb 2022 - TTC #4 with IVF - RPL testing
    Protein C and S Deficiency - Blood Thinners for Treatment - Maybe we don't know!
    June 2022 - IVF - 2 embryos - 1 transferred 6/22/22 - Transfer Failed
    July 2022 - FET - cancelled
    Dec 2022 - Vasectomy reversal
    June 2023 - DH diagnosed with Brain Tumor - TTC put on indefinite hold
    January 2025 - Surprise BFP! Due 9/13/2025 - CP
    January 2025 - Trying Again



  • @dmcgrew17 Did your H just do a standard SA? I learned recently that doesn’t actually give a full picture, though there don’t seem to be many other tests for MFI. So don’t start blaming yourself, especially when you don’t even have your test results yet!
  • @britters314 Thanks, it’s hard not to, but I’m trying! My doctor recommended his test through Fellow; it seems like a standard SA. It gave lots of information though and was super interesting. 
  • acarverrnacarverrn member
    edited January 2023

    Month/Cycle: 1

    CD: 7

    WAYDTGKU: currently benched because my husband is away for work until May but I cannot get babies off the brain so I’m charting and tracking until then in the hopes that having all this prep time will bring us good news soon after May! Fx! 

    R/R: 

    CS/Q: nope, just passing the time and cheering you ladies on!

    @dmcgrew17 I so hope all the testing on your end comes back great as well!! ETA: Easier said than done I understand but try not to blame yourself! You aren’t at ‘fault’ for anything; our bodies are simply all unique!

    @stashattck I am so very sorry for your loss. We were just there in November/early December and it really is just gut-wrenching. Big hugs to you!

  • @acarverrn I'm so sorry for your loss too. Big hugs. I'm sorry you are benched until May!!
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • Month/cycle: 2/waiting on cycles to even out

    CD: 4

    WAYDTGKU: waiting on hormones to balance out, tracking

    R/R: Just so over having my period... 3 times in 2 months 😫 such a pain. Work is insane. Everything else is good!

    CS/Q: Nope
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