April 2023 Moms

GTKY 10/19: Location

Borrowed this from March '23 😊

-Where's everyone at? As specific or general as you are comfortable sharing of course.
-What brought you there? 
-What's your favorite thing about where you live?
-What's your least favorite thing about where you live? 

Re: GTKY 10/19: Location

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  • @etnyah is your husband from WA? What were you doing in Scotland (work, school?)
  • @nsk489 oh yeah, should’ve mentioned why he was here too lol. He’s original from North Dakota, but moved out here in his early 20’s because he hated living there. His family on his mom’s side is originally from WA. When his parents retired, they moved out here as well, so he has no ties to ND anymore.

    I went to college in Scotland, I met him at a show when his band was on tour, through a mutual friend. We talked every day on Facebook for months until I finally built up the (liquid) courage to ask if I could come visit, and that was it! 
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • Where: suburbs of Denver
    What brought us here: I grew up in Colorado, I met my husband while we lived in Denver, we moved to CT for a few years for his job but then I got pee tree giant and he was approved to work remote full time and I wanted to be closer to my family so we moved back. 
    Favorite things: beautiful mountains, close to my family, green chili, 300 days of sunshine, always something fun to do outside, Red Rocks concerts
    Downsides: the cost of housing has gotten out of control ever since pot was legalized and everyone realized how great CO is. 

    @nsk489 my brother got married in the area you live earlier this year. His in laws have a winery there. It was beautiful. 

    @etnyah we used to go to Seattle really often when my brother was in the Army and lived in the area. It was always lots of fun. 

    @enw1028 my husband has family in NC-we visit them every once in a while. I’m jealous of your beaches but not the humidity!
  • @iiirene lots of military families out here!

    Denver and Seattle are so similar re: demographic and housing cost. Absolutely ridiculous. When we were looking to buy, I kept checking more affordable states just to see what we could get in our budget there. We could have easily doubled the sq ft and paid $100k less. Buuuut we wanted to stay close-ish to the ILs and we weren’t keen on looking for new jobs so here we are, in our overpriced little house!
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • @iiirene it definitely is beautiful here and I had no idea Oregon was such a great wine region until moving here!

    @etnyah ugh the housing costs on the west coast in general are awful. Pittsburgh was one of the most "liveable" cities in the US for a few years; I never realized how cheap everything was there until we moved and bought a house here 😵
  • Where's everyone at?  Northeast coast

    What brought you there?  Lived in this general area all my life, but moved slightly south for hubby's job (before we were married) about 8 or 9 years ago.  It was about the same distance from my jobs as where I lived before, so it made sense to go with him. 

    What's your favorite thing about where you live?  Seasons.  Fall foliage.  Being close-ish to family (2 hours) for weekend trips.  Being close to the beaches, hiking, and lots of major cities.

    What's your least favorite thing about where you live?  Humidity in summer.  Being too far from family (about 2 hours) for them to visit often.  Cost of living is INSANE (hence the tiny house on our one salary income).

  • Where's everyone at? As specific or general as you are comfortable sharing of course. New Jersey Shore - I live a mile from the beach and a block from the bay.  
    -What brought you there? I grew up in NJ - as did my husband. We both spent summers enjoying this area and once we got together, both knew we didn't want to leave. I used to live & work in NYC but when we got engaged, found a job more local to this area, and that was it! Now we both work full time from home so we could live anywhere, but all of our family is in NJ and we love the beach life. 
    -What's your favorite thing about where you live? Beach life, we live a beach cruiser/golf cart area, super family friendly - its like one of the last small towns left that really has that community feel. It's super cute. 
    -What's your least favorite thing about where you live? Cost of living/cost of housing/property taxes. NJ is seriously insane. (But we'll never leave because ALL of our family is in the state- literally no one ever leaves!! They all live within an hour of us) 
    TTM - EDD 4/23 - Team Green <3 
  • -Where's everyone at? I am in a NW suburb of Chicago

    -What brought you there? I grew up in Chicago, became a consultant and travelled the world (fun but lonely) and when I changed jobs and was actually able to settle down and buy my first house I just wanted to be back where I had family and friends. Eventually got married and decided to have kids so we moved to a larger home in the suburbs. 

    -What's your favorite thing about where you live? I am close enough to the city to be able to visit the museums, theaters, restaurants, events, etc. but far enough away to avoid the noise, congestion, and crime. Chicago is a great city with amazing diversity and nightlife, but I got old and boring. 

    -What's your least favorite thing about where you live? I love the change of seasons, but man that bone chilling cold is brutal during the dead of winter. 
  • From south TX!
    -What brought you there? I moved around a lot as a kid and eventually lived in Australia for a few years. My mom got homesick for family and we moved the texas where a few of her sisters lived. Been here 12 years now!
    -What's your favorite thing about where you live? It's a big city but feels like a small town. Lots to do in the area!
    -What's your least favorite thing about where you live? The heat. It is suffocating and never ending!
  • -Where's everyone at? As specific or general as you are comfortable sharing of course. I'm in Monterey, CA
    -What brought you there? H and I were living in the Bay Area since 2018 (before that, we're from Canada... moved here because we're both in tech and that's where the awesome jobs are) and we were both just really tired of SF noise, traffic, homelessness crisis, and crime. In Dec 2021, my work gave anyone who'd been with the company 2+ years the option to go remote before we all went back to the office, and I grabbed at it. Easy to do when you're renting! 
    -What's your favorite thing about where you live? 7 min to the beach/ocean; great neighbors; space space space
    -What's your least favorite thing about where you live? Honestly, there's not much. Access to medical providers can be a challenge. When I first moved here, I booked an appointment with a PCP and the first available was 9 months out. I ended up going to another city, which is a 25 min drive, but holy crap I was able to get an appointment there in 6 weeks. Family is far, but that'd be an issue if we were still in the Bay Area too. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


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