FTM/STM/TTM+: EDD/Weeks+Days: Baby is the size of: Team blue/pink/green: Upcoming Appointments: How are you feeling?: Rants/Raves: GTKY: What is the last concert you attended?
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM EDD/Weeks+Days: 4/5, 13w5d Baby is the size of: Team blue/pink/green: finding out, hopefully this week! I don’t have a preference but I have a girl feeling. I had a boy feeling with my son, we’ll see! Upcoming Appointments: not for a while, October 20th. How are you feeling?: nausea and fatigue is starting to ease. Covid set me back but I feel a lot better now. Rants/Raves: started to get into nesting mode and deep cleaned the kitchen over the weekend and it felt pretty good. The house looks bombed after we were all sick for so long, and I haven’t exactly been staying on top of household duties since well… I found out I was pregnant. GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? I’ve been to a lot more concerts this summer than in the past couple years (thanks, Covid)! All local bands. Most recently a band my H knows called Wimps, it was family friendly and outside so kiddo had a blast. Before that, a house show of a friend’s band celebrating 10 years of being in a band (I didn’t catch much of it because my son thought it was too loud, but we watched through a window). Before that again, my H’s band and a couple others played a roller rink, so I got to try on roller skates for the first time in over a decade. The stage was in the middle, that was really fun.
DS born 2/18/2019 DD born 4/1/2023 Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM EDD/Weeks+Days: 13 Weeks Baby is the size of: a mini cactus Team blue/pink/green: finding out next month! Upcoming Appointments: Friday for my NT scan. Finally. A had a surprise trip to urgent care on Saturday for a UTI How are you feeling?: The UTI is uncomfortable but at least I’ve got antibiotics which should be helping with that. Otherwise I’m feeling good physically. I had a really horrible nightmare last night about the pregnancy so that has got me feeling off emotionally this morning. Rants/Raves: just so eager to see my baby again this week. I haven’t had an appointment since late August GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? A few weeks ago my husband and I went to two concerts-one I was really looking forward to and one I was looking less forward to. We saw Andrew McMahon and the Wilderness and Smallpools. Both shows were fun but exhausting.
Baby is the size of: I haven't been paying attention
Team blue/pink/green: finding out after we get our NT results; team healthy baby
Upcoming Appointments: NT scan tomorrow
How are you feeling?: I started to have some better days last week, but nausea was back over the weekend and still feeling off today.
Rants/Raves: rant...we've been dealing with water in our basement, even though we waterproofed when we finished it 2 years ago 🙄, so all the additional rain we're getting from remnants of Ian is making for added stress trying to dry out the water that has seeped under the flooring. We've been waiting on a contractor for more than 2 weeks to come help route water away from our house. They were supposed to be here last Monday, but delayed because of another project taking longer, and now we're just on hold. It's so frustrating when contractors don't communicate with their customers. We have had to chase down everyone who has done work at our house, and I'm pretty over it.
GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? Leslie Odom, Jr. One of his covers was the song we picked for our first dance at our wedding reception, so his concerts hold a special place for us.
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM EDD/Weeks+Days: 14w1d 4/2 Baby is the size of: peach Team blue/pink/green: finding out on 10/23 Upcoming Appointments: don’t remember How are you feeling?: finally better, no more severe morning sickness Rants/Raves: I have a friend staying with me for a few days, she keeps trying to do “chores” because “she feels like a burden”. I wouldn’t offer for you to stay if it was a burden. Just be a guest and stop making comments about it. GTKY: What is the last concert you attended 21 pilots in 2016, was supposed to see Billie eilish 3/24/20 but that was cancelled
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM EDD/Weeks+Days: 4/11 (12w6d) Baby is the size of: A plum? The fruit comparisons seem so random to me. Team blue/pink/green: Team healthy baby. My husband really wants a girl, and I feel really connected to the idea of having a daughter. Either one is honestly fine with me! Upcoming Appointments: 10/24…it seems forever away. We did our NIPT test last week and the waiting is killing me. I’m considering booking a private ultrasound when my Mom comes up to visit in a week or so. I just want to see the baby again so bad. How are you feeling?: I’m feeling great! I’ve had very minimal symptoms the entire pregnancy, which has honestly amplified my anxiety. But, the bloating is still pretty intense in the afternoons. Rants/Raves: I’m a HS English teacher, and I am dreading work every single day. The burnout is so real. I used to love teaching, but the kids this year are very challenging. GTKY: What is the last concert you attended: Bon Iver in early 2021.
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM EDD/Weeks+Days: Apr 1 / 14+2 Baby is the size of: no Team blue/pink/green: team “we know but we’re not saying” Upcoming Appointments: next week I’m meeting with a potential new OB / a potential new midwife / and then possibly also my current OB. Lol. How are you feeling?: great! No more nausea and I’ve started to go down on my B6 dose. But it’s mostly because I ran out before my trip so had to ration for my pillbox. Rants/Raves: I’m in Maui 😎 for our (finally!) honeymoon/bday trip/ babymoon. We had to book the trip last year to avoid losing our flight credits from our original trip first planned for Apr 2020, then Dec 2020… both of which were cancelled. When I booked this trip last December, I reasoned that at minimum it will be our honeymoon and my bday trip (39th bday is tomorrow!) and at most also a babymoon. Alas, that’s just how it all worked out! GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? I honestly do not remember. I feel so old. I think maybe it was going to see SF Symphony play their outdoor summer concert Summer 2019. 🤷♀️
TTC History TTC#2
Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020 Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center) Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral Oct 2024... currently awaiting a hysteroscopy (10/28) to check uterine cavity + check for endometritis
TTC #1
Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020 TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022 2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis 07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis 07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment 07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS 08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA 09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN 09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required 10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN 10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic 11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN 11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN 12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN 01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN 02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️ 04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN 04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance 05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF 05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded 07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid 08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d 09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid 11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation 12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN 01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN 02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity 03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022 05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022 07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@acleverusername ooh enjoy Maui! I’m so jealous! And happy birthday!
@v_flowers I really considered getting a private ultrasound too. My next one is Friday and it will be almost 6 weeks since my last appointment. I’m feeling so anxious. Sorry you’re feeling burnt out. Being a teacher is really hard right now and I’ve definitely struggled to enjoy my job for the last two years. This year is actually the first year I’ve enjoyed my job more often than not in since the 19-20 school year.
@yelaklu13 Billie Eilish would have been an awesome concert. What a bummer it didn’t work out!
@etnyah that roller rink show sounds like a blast! We’ve been trying to catch up on the live music we missed out on because of covid too
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM EDD/Weeks+Days: April 12th Baby is the size of: 13 week baby 😉 Team blue/pink/green: We know! Upcoming Appointments: Another 3 weeks away How are you feeling?: OK Rants/Raves: We agree the news with family last weekend and it was amazing. 😊 DD is so excited to be a big sister. GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? National Symphony Orchestra and Hanson collab haha; I was pregnant with DD at the time and a good friend wanted to go for her birthday - it was actually super fun!
Re: Groups 1&2 check in w/o 10/3
EDD/Weeks+Days: 4/5, 13w5d
Baby is the size of:
Team blue/pink/green: finding out, hopefully this week! I don’t have a preference but I have a girl feeling. I had a boy feeling with my son, we’ll see!
Upcoming Appointments: not for a while, October 20th.
How are you feeling?: nausea and fatigue is starting to ease. Covid set me back but I feel a lot better now.
Rants/Raves: started to get into nesting mode and deep cleaned the kitchen over the weekend and it felt pretty good. The house looks bombed after we were all sick for so long, and I haven’t exactly been staying on top of household duties since well… I found out I was pregnant.
GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? I’ve been to a lot more concerts this summer than in the past couple years (thanks, Covid)! All local bands. Most recently a band my H knows called Wimps, it was family friendly and outside so kiddo had a blast. Before that, a house show of a friend’s band celebrating 10 years of being in a band (I didn’t catch much of it because my son thought it was too loud, but we watched through a window). Before that again, my H’s band and a couple others played a roller rink, so I got to try on roller skates for the first time in over a decade. The stage was in the middle, that was really fun.
DD born 4/1/2023
Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
EDD/Weeks+Days: 13 Weeks
Baby is the size of: a mini cactus
Team blue/pink/green: finding out next month!
Upcoming Appointments: Friday for my NT scan. Finally. A had a surprise trip to urgent care on Saturday for a UTI
How are you feeling?: The UTI is uncomfortable but at least I’ve got antibiotics which should be helping with that. Otherwise I’m feeling good physically. I had a really horrible nightmare last night about the pregnancy so that has got me feeling off emotionally this morning.
Rants/Raves: just so eager to see my baby again this week. I haven’t had an appointment since late August
GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? A few weeks ago my husband and I went to two concerts-one I was really looking forward to and one I was looking less forward to. We saw Andrew McMahon and the Wilderness and Smallpools. Both shows were fun but exhausting.
EDD/Weeks+Days: 14w1d 4/2
Baby is the size of: peach
Team blue/pink/green: finding out on 10/23
Upcoming Appointments: don’t remember
How are you feeling?: finally better, no more severe morning sickness
Rants/Raves: I have a friend staying with me for a few days, she keeps trying to do “chores” because “she feels like a burden”. I wouldn’t offer for you to stay if it was a burden. Just be a guest and stop making comments about it.
GTKY: What is the last concert you attended
21 pilots in 2016, was supposed to see Billie eilish 3/24/20 but that was cancelled
EDD/Weeks+Days: 4/11 (12w6d)
Baby is the size of: A plum? The fruit comparisons seem so random to me.
Team blue/pink/green: Team healthy baby. My husband really wants a girl, and I feel really connected to the idea of having a daughter. Either one is honestly fine with me!
Upcoming Appointments: 10/24…it seems forever away. We did our NIPT test last week and the waiting is killing me. I’m considering booking a private ultrasound when my Mom comes up to visit in a week or so. I just want to see the baby again so bad.
How are you feeling?: I’m feeling great! I’ve had very minimal symptoms the entire pregnancy, which has honestly amplified my anxiety. But, the bloating is still pretty intense in the afternoons.
Rants/Raves: I’m a HS English teacher, and I am dreading work every single day. The burnout is so real. I used to love teaching, but the kids this year are very challenging.
GTKY: What is the last concert you attended: Bon Iver in early 2021.
EDD/Weeks+Days: Apr 1 / 14+2
Baby is the size of: no
Team blue/pink/green: team “we know but we’re not saying”
Upcoming Appointments: next week I’m meeting with a potential new OB / a potential new midwife / and then possibly also my current OB. Lol.
How are you feeling?: great! No more nausea and I’ve started to go down on my B6 dose. But it’s mostly because I ran out before my trip so had to ration for my pillbox.
Rants/Raves: I’m in Maui 😎 for our (finally!) honeymoon/bday trip/ babymoon. We had to book the trip last year to avoid losing our flight credits from our original trip first planned for Apr 2020, then Dec 2020… both of which were cancelled. When I booked this trip last December, I reasoned that at minimum it will be our honeymoon and my bday trip (39th bday is tomorrow!) and at most also a babymoon. Alas, that’s just how it all worked out!
GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? I honestly do not remember. I feel so old. I think maybe it was going to see SF Symphony play their outdoor summer concert Summer 2019. 🤷♀️
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024... currently awaiting a hysteroscopy (10/28) to check uterine cavity + check for endometritis
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@v_flowers I really considered getting a private ultrasound too. My next one is Friday and it will be almost 6 weeks since my last appointment. I’m feeling so anxious. Sorry you’re feeling burnt out. Being a teacher is really hard right now and I’ve definitely struggled to enjoy my job for the last two years. This year is actually the first year I’ve enjoyed my job more often than not in since the 19-20 school year.
@etnyah that roller rink show sounds like a blast! We’ve been trying to catch up on the live music we missed out on because of covid too
EDD/Weeks+Days: April 12th
Baby is the size of: 13 week baby 😉
Team blue/pink/green: We know!
Upcoming Appointments: Another 3 weeks away
How are you feeling?: OK
Rants/Raves: We agree the news with family last weekend and it was amazing. 😊 DD is so excited to be a big sister.
GTKY: What is the last concert you attended? National Symphony Orchestra and Hanson collab haha; I was pregnant with DD at the time and a good friend wanted to go for her birthday - it was actually super fun!