@travellingjess I'm sorry that you're having that experience, especially while pregnant. It's so hard when the one person who is supposed to have your back and be your #1 isn't doing that for you. Taking that news on top of the disagreement must be so hard. I'll be thinking of you.
This is totally not your fault, and there's nothing you could have done differently. I hope you get the additional care/check-ins you need to put your mind at ease. Sending you all of the good vibes mama!
Saw our little creepy(but cute) turkey on Wednesday for a repeat anatomy scan. She finally cooperated(barely 😅) and the tech was able to get a good shot of her heart and kidneys. We got to see her yawn and I noticed the screen giggle every time she kicked. My husband didn’t even notice. 😂
@travellingjess - A tidbit on the choroid plexus cysts. All 4 of my kids have had them at their 20 week scan, and my doctors have reacted different ways. But basically it's just something that happens in about 10% of fetuses and it's a part of the natural growing process. Nothing you did or didn't do caused it. I hope your DH comes around and is able to support you throughout the rest of the pregnancy.
@travellingjess I might be overstepping my bounds here, but non-communication during pregnancy should not be an option imo. It might be something that he needs to work on. Some time to decompress after an argument is understandable, but days in which news about a child needs to be shared can wreak havoc on both the relationship and parenting in general. I can't remember if this is your first, but pregnancy is only the start of some really hard moments in which both parents need to be effectively communicating.
I'm so sorry you're feeling so alone though this. Hopefully things get resolved and I'm glad you have here to talk through things:)
@travellingjess thank you! And I’m so sorry to hear that but what @miss_lynn9 has said it’s not your fault. If you need to talk I’m here. Also have you two talked since getting in the argument?
Re: Ultrasound Thread
This is totally not your fault, and there's nothing you could have done differently. I hope you get the additional care/check-ins you need to put your mind at ease. Sending you all of the good vibes mama!