Introduction, new here! (Loss mentioned)

stellaraqua92

Hey, so my partner and I have been trying for almost 3 years 😶. The first year of trying we had an early loss after a positive test, although we were sad I knew this happened to a few friends and my mom so I figured it would be a small hiccup and we would be pregnant in no time. After the year mark I had a break down and for the next 6 months we tried but not as aggressively. I told myself I was just too wrapped up in it and stressing myself out, maybe if we took a pause things would just happen. Every month I still held my breath. After that we just decided to keep trying and if it happened it happened. We had a lot of changes in life (hight of covid too) and if it didn't happen right then that's okay because we wanted to get things sorted, but we didn't prevent pregnancy either. At the 2 year mark neither of us felt ready to see a specialist, it is daunting. My partner did see a Dr. (He's only got one working testicle) but was assured that was enough. Finally we are approaching 3 years and are ready to go see a specialist and try IUI or IVF if needed once we know what's going on. We are trying the Mosie Baby kit in the meantime to try at home interventions before jumping into more invasive and expensive options. It's been a tough road, but we are hopeful.