12 weeks pregnant now so I'm telling my manager and then sharing at work. I have a coworker who has been trying for years and she went through her last and final try with fertility treatments a month or so ago, unsuccessfully. She has been absolutely gutted as she wanted it so so much. I am heart broken for her and feel so awful that my pregnancy coincided so closely with the end of her journey. I'm struggling to figure out the best way to share the news with her. The whole team will be getting together in person in 2 weeks and I want to tell her before then so she isnt blindsided with so many people around her. Any advice on the best way to approach it with her? I don't even know if it should be an email (super impersonal but gives her space to react as she needs to) or in a video meeting (more personal but don't want her to feel put on the spot).