January 2023 Moms

Weekly Randoms Week of June 28th

What has made this pregnancy feel “real” for you?

Re: Weekly Randoms Week of June 28th

  • Still doesn't! My symptoms are soo different than my first pregnancy. I often don't feel pregnant despite the bump I can no longer hide. 12 week ultrasound will make it really sink in.
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  • Today at my midwife appt their little handheld ultrasound was the clearest ultrasound I’ve ever had. I got to really see baby’s facial features and it was just like oh wow there really is another little person in there (causing all this chaos to me hehe)
  • Finally being able to tell friends and family has made it more real for me! I have a mini bump forming so that’s been affirming too.
  • I don’t think it will feel real until I get my first ultrasound which isn’t until 7/18
  • It still feels totally surreal. Probably feeling baby kick regularly will help! And seeing a visible bump rather than just looking like I ate Chipotle 😆.

    But some of your comments make me think we should start HDBD! I'll post one tomorrow.
  • Seeing surrobabe on ultrasound has made it feel real. I actually just finished cleaning our triage room so after I was done, I globbed on some gel to take a look at little boy. He was going nuts wiggling all around! But for me it feels the realest when I start feeling those movements.
  • Seeing the ultrasound made it real for a bit. Now I get little jolts of “oh yeah it’s real!” when I tell a new friend or something.
  • What is this “real” you speak of?! 😂 I still feel like I’m imagining this whole thing. Were it not for my fatigue, and the desperate need for beef and new, bigger, comfy bras, I wouldn’t even even feel pregnant! I put our ultrasound printout on the fridge though to remind myself I’m not alone, and it does help. 
  • @cbhclark you worded it perfectly!

    It feels most real when I get an ultrasound and for a few days after. It’s been three plus weeks since my last ultrasound and I’m so anxious for Thursday when I get to see baby again. 

    Intuition tells me baby is there and I can feel that but I have such a hard time believing things I can’t see are real. I’m trying to just trust my feelings and not my eyes 😂
  • @jesofthenorth  it didn’t feel real with my first until I was like 36 weeks and could feel him kicking me nonstop lol so it’s still early! 
  • I am definitely having a harder time connecting with this pregnancy than my others.  I know it's just because I am so afraid of losing this baby too.  I always feel better when I know the sex and we have a name that I can call the baby and when I feel them move.
  • First appointment/ultrasound was today, so now after seeing the little bean it seems real, I don't just feel not 100% for no reason!  We haven't told anyone yet, so it might feel even more real after we actually do that haha.
  • I know I’m pregnant I’m just waiting to feel like it I guess. I’ve had my first sono done last week and I cried. I have two girls 17 and 13 so I’m literally starting over. This pregnancy definitely feels different from the first two. I do talk to the baby here and there I just hate that I forget sometimes it’s in there. 
  • I told my most important ppl but some of them I wish I didn’t tell. 
  • I think that’s what I’m waiting on, movement! 
  • Same lol mine is on my wall in my room. 
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