@wigglyicecream omg I love you so much more over here picking Eminem! My #1 go to song while I’m drinking is Lose Yourself and I LOVED that that’s what he performed at the super bowl!! 😍 To answer your question, my second pregnancy didn’t fly by at all 🤣 I would maybe only say that after it’s totally over and baby is like 2 months old 😬
Upcoming Appointments: Monthly check up next Monday, got the 20w anatomy scan scheduled for next month!
How are you feeling?: Pretty good. The Buff Chick Mac and Cheese did not agree with my stomach last night, but doing better now.
Rants/Raves: I don't like being told when I can't/shouldn't lift stuff. I know what's too much for me and I can still help. I was helping to move family over the weekend, and while yes there were boxes I needed to stay away from, I was handed a tiny Amazon box instead to fill with random lightweight kitchen thing, like tea. Eventually I ended up just on dog sitting duty, which was fine.
Also the boppy cuddle pillow is much better!
Questions: None today, but I always seem to have one by Tuesday after I've posted. Thank you to those who chimed in on the registry questions!
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I love this question. We had a Karaoke night on Thursdays in college, and we were tight with the DJ, so he pretty much let us run the show and also drove us back to the dorms at the end of the night. Usually start with Whitney Huston's I Wanna Dance With Somebody to get the party started. @and_peggy - yes! I have also done some Spice Girls, and quickly learned that Wanna has some weird lyrics. I'm sure I will have other stories based on other responses.
Upcoming Appointments: nothing until 3/7 (OB) and 3/15 (AS w/ MFM)
How are you feeling?: the past few days my exhaustion has come back pretty strong. today I also have a headache but more of a “tired headache” than the ones I was having a few weeks ago. my boobs seem to be less painful so that’s nice.
Rants/Raves: I’m annoyed that once I finally want to buy stuff for the baby, I need to wait because we have to move all our stuff around to redo our floors so it’s silly to bring MORE stuff in before we do that.
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night?
You will never catch me doing karaoke. But if it was a life or death situation, probably something from the 90s that everyone else would be singing along to as well.
How are you feeling?: Much better, but now having some fun hip pains.
Rants/Raves: I’m starting to panic about being really pregnant in the summer heat. I need to prep for some summer maternity outfit options.
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I’d be too terrified, but maybe some Lauryn Hill. Although @wigglyicecream has me considering Surface Pressure from Encanto…
@lmaplejc@wigglyicecream my 5 year old keeps calling it “Surface Pleasure”. We started correcting her after the 3rd time 😆 can’t have her walking around singing that at school
How are you feeling?: Very hormonal and weepy. Otherwise, I'm actually feeling okay which is a nice change of pace.
Rants/Raves: Rant: I was super annoyed with DH this morning and it ended with me in tears sobbing. I actually had a valid reason for being annoyed, but I hate that I can't hold a serious conversation at this point without me crying and seeming overly weepy. Rave: Find out baby's gender at 5pm! I'm so excited!!
Questions: Nope
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I'd probably be the lame person who wouldn't sing. I say this because I usually need liquid courage to sing in public, and that's off the table right now. But if you did get a few drinks in me... I'd sing pretty much anything from the 90s/early 2000s. I don't really listen to music very often now.
@paytonpedro so glad you got your hair done today! Best feeling EVER.
Question for you: did you get any color done, or just a cut? I have a hair appointment in a few weeks and wonder if I'm okay to get color. I can never remember the rules. I'll ask my OB too, but I'm curious about your understanding.
EDD / Weeks + Days: October 8th (c-section mama, so probably August 1st) // 14w 6 days
Baby is the size of a(n): Beet
Team: Finding out! Next month is the anatomy scan!
Upcoming Appointments: Tomorrow 15 weeks
How are you feeling?: Pretty decent. I'm a generally tired person, but I'm alllllllways tireddddd
Rants/Raves: I'm impatiently waiting for the anatomy scan. I appreciated that my old provider would look for gender before the AS, but this provider (while fantastic and love him) doesn't so boo! Waiting to start my little wishlist after we find out gender.
Questions: None at this moment.
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? @itsme215 Yess. Pandora's Summer Hits of The 90s. end all be all station.
@wigglyicecream oof. I don't know how any of our pregnancies will fly by at this point since our first trimesters have been 5 months already. Anyone else? And yes, Encanto on repeat with the rest of the world. Disney knew what they were doing with this one.
@paytonpedro baby child sound way cuter, haha we'll go with that. I feel you on the daily nap, especially chasing other littles around like you are. So glad you had a self love moment and enjoyed some "me" time!
@fromfurmomtobabymom8-2 I hate the unsolicited restrictions too! We're all very comfortable in our bodies and know our limits. We're pregnant not incapable. I've been waiting to go back to the registry comment and respond!
@itsme215 if you're buying little stuff like clothes just keep it stowed away in the car haha. might be an eyesore for quite sometime but, bring on the baby!
@fuzzywombat oof, sorry about your bout of food poisoning but congrats on the good NIPT results!!
@lmaplejc Depending on where you live, I can't say being pregnant is the summer is that fun. haha. First two pregnancies babies were born in July and August. I live in Louisiana, the Deep South AKA. The Devil's Playground and it was raaaaaather miserable. I don't handle heat well, so definitely dress appropriately!
@and_peggy I LOVE when children start saying what they thing they hear. Might cause an issue for school hahahaha.
@darkrose88 Pregnancy hormones do suck, so sorry. I know what you mean and it's so hard to be taken seriously when you're crying halfway through a conversation.
@malloryfrommn I got color done when I was 8ish weeks. I walked in to the salon and my hairdresser asked me what I wanted, and I said well, I'm pregnant, so am I allowed to get my usual (which is highlights). She said absolutely! Highlights don't touch the scalp, so that's fine. I trusted her and she has two kids. I forget what she said about full color though, but really I don't think she had concerns, but check depending on what you normally get done.
No ultrasound today but the doctor said baby sounded great. HB was about 160, he said. Scheduled my anatomy scan!! March 15th! Very ready and excited to find out gender
How are you feeling?: Remembering how much I hate the 2nd tri. I couldn't wait to get there in my first pregnancy and then somehow felt worse than first tri? Seems to be the same way so far this go around
Rants/Raves: Trying to walk the line of soaking everything in because this will be my last pregnancy AND being honest with myself that I do not really enjoy being pregnant. Add hormones into that and it just makes me a mess
Questions: None
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? Fancy by Reba. It would not be good, but it would be sung with passion
@tmartin014 I relate to your feelings 100% This is my third and last pregnancy, and apparently I'm supposed to cry tears of nostalgia that this is the LAST TIME I'm doing all these things but instead I'm over here like, "I will never have to do the first trimester again!" I'll also be so happy to put second tri constipation, nasal congestion, and hip pain in the rearview mirror. I do not enjoy being pregnant.
@malloryfrommn the packet from my doctor's office indicate there are no concerns with using hair dye. I only go about once every 5-6 months, and I do get hair dye put on my scalp & ends (I get an ombre look). I did it with DS and I'll do it with DD. Honestly, the biggest issue with dye has always been the smell... but the mask helps block out the smell... I may never stop masking when I go to the hairdresser for that reason alone lol.
@malloryfrommn there are pregnancy safe color products you can use. I just let my air dresser know prior so she has what she needs. I got only highlights so I’m not sure if it’s a little different. I think generally you want ammonia-free, or bleach-free, semi-permanent hair color.
@tmartin014 this will also be my last pregnancy and I went into it knowing that and knowing that we only want 3 children. I still think I’ll miss this season of life. It’s kind of crazy how quickly it’s gone by. After this baby is here, it will be just raising them. It’s weird. I’m glad the first tri is over but I’m definitely going to soak in every baby kick and try to really enjoy the rest of this pregnancy. My tune will surely change when I can barely walk come July.
How are you feeling?: Fine, my clothes are starting to get tight, I just feel funny and I don't feel like people talk about the 2nd trimester much. I also have been more moody which is annoying, particularly since I don't notice it unless I am thinking about it.
Rants/Raves: I just with I knew more, but then everyone is different so there is that. I am also worried about labor and postpartum as my trust in how women's health is treated in the US is relatively small.
Questions: Any tips for the 2nd trimester?
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? Redneck Woman by Gretchen Wilson
My experience is that L&D is completely different than other health care and hospital visits I’ve had. For me, everything has been very much about consent before they do anything. I hope you are pleasantly surprised. If you are feeling very anxious, you should discuss it with your doctor and see what you can do to prepare in the mean time. They’re generally very good about making you feel as comfortable as possible.
ETA, maybe looking into a doula would be helpful for you.
@dimeadozen I live in NJ and we get hot and humid summers (but nothing like Louisiana!). My first was born in Feb so I haven’t had a summer baby. I don’t do shorts so I’ll probably live in dresses. 🥵
Thanks so much for the input! Super helpful. Good call on giving my hairdresser a heads up so she can get any pregnancy safe products. I also agree 100% that wearing a mask will help with the strong chemical odors.
Last time around I was ultra conservative and didn't do any color. That combined with a solid 4 months of postpartum early-pandemic quarantine -- my hair was a HOT MESS.
Re: 2/14 Weekly Check-in August 1-15
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/10
Baby is the size of a(n): peach
Team: 💙
Upcoming Appointments: 3/7 for OB follow up
How are you feeling?: mostly good
Rants/Raves: Rave- I think I’m feeling flutters, it isn’t consistent but when it happens I don’t believe it could be something other than him
Questions: When does the “my 2nd pregnancy flew bye” start? Lol
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? Superman- Eminem used to be my go to. Now I would probably do something from Encanto
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/7, 15+1
Baby is the size of a(n): 15 week old fetus? I don’t know 😆
Team: 💙
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday OB
How are you feeling?: mostly good.
Rants/Raves:
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? Spice girls brings back some solid memories.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
@wigglyicecream omg I love you so much more over here picking Eminem! My #1 go to song while I’m drinking is Lose Yourself and I LOVED that that’s what he performed at the super bowl!! 😍 To answer your question, my second pregnancy didn’t fly by at all 🤣 I would maybe only say that after it’s totally over and baby is like 2 months old 😬
@and_peggy yesssss! Love spice girls!!
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/11 14+4
Baby is the size of a(n): apparently fits in a mug today which is creepy af… also a baby chick/ hamster/ or troll doll
Team: pink 🎀
Upcoming Appointments: nothing until 2/28
How are you feeling?: pretty good all around. Still needing that daily nap though.
Rants/Raves: I spent the morning getting my hair done and I just feel so refreshed. It’s crazy how something so small can make you feel so good!
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I usually pick something country, but I suck at singing haha.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/2, 16w
Baby is the size of a(n): Dill Pickle
Team: Surprise
Upcoming Appointments: Monthly check up next Monday, got the 20w anatomy scan scheduled for next month!
How are you feeling?: Pretty good. The Buff Chick Mac and Cheese did not agree with my stomach last night, but doing better now.
Rants/Raves: I don't like being told when I can't/shouldn't lift stuff. I know what's too much for me and I can still help. I was helping to move family over the weekend, and while yes there were boxes I needed to stay away from, I was handed a tiny Amazon box instead to fill with random lightweight kitchen thing, like tea. Eventually I ended up just on dog sitting duty, which was fine.
Also the boppy cuddle pillow is much better!
Questions: None today, but I always seem to have one by Tuesday after I've posted. Thank you to those who chimed in on the registry questions!
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I love this question. We had a Karaoke night on Thursdays in college, and we were tight with the DJ, so he pretty much let us run the show and also drove us back to the dorms at the end of the night. Usually start with Whitney Huston's I Wanna Dance With Somebody to get the party started. @and_peggy - yes! I have also done some Spice Girls, and quickly learned that Wanna has some weird lyrics. I'm sure I will have other stories based on other responses.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 14w1d (8/14)
Baby is the size of a(n): peach
Team: 💚
Upcoming Appointments: nothing until 3/7 (OB) and 3/15 (AS w/ MFM)
How are you feeling?: the past few days my exhaustion has come back pretty strong. today I also have a headache but more of a “tired headache” than the ones I was having a few weeks ago. my boobs seem to be less painful so that’s nice.
Rants/Raves: I’m annoyed that once I finally want to buy stuff for the baby, I need to wait because we have to move all our stuff around to redo our floors so it’s silly to bring MORE stuff in before we do that.
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night?
You will never catch me doing karaoke. But if it was a life or death situation, probably something from the 90s that everyone else would be singing along to as well.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 14 weeks!!
Baby is the size of a(n): peach?
Team: finding out
Upcoming Appointments: 3/1
How are you feeling?: Mostly better. I stopped the ginger pills, and I only get nauseous if I start to over-exert, and I can sit down and feel better
Rants/Raves: 2nd tri!!!! Also, I can feel baby move now, but it's small, weirdish movements that aren't as fun as the big ones that come later
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I don't sing. But maybe with three friends to back me up I could do the Lil Kim part of Lady Marmalade
@wigglyicecream Never. My second pregnancy was approximately 40x longer than my first
EDD / Weeks + Days: 15w (8/8)
Baby is the size of a(n): orange
Team: green
Upcoming Appointments: Ob next week
How are you feeling?: I had food poisoning last week and it took several days to get over the lingering nausea, but finally feeling better
Rants/Raves: NIPT came back low risk!
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I wouldn’t, but I I like itsme215’s idea for audience participation, so I’ll go with some Journey
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/6, 15w2d
Baby is the size of a(n): navel orange
Team: blue
Upcoming Appointments: next week
How are you feeling?: Much better, but now having some fun hip pains.
Rants/Raves: I’m starting to panic about being really pregnant in the summer heat. I need to prep for some summer maternity outfit options.
Questions:
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I’d be too terrified, but maybe some Lauryn Hill. Although @wigglyicecream has me considering Surface Pressure from Encanto…
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/6, 15+3
Baby is the size of a(n): Orange
Team: Finding out this evening !!!
Upcoming Appointments: 1/25
How are you feeling?: Very hormonal and weepy. Otherwise, I'm actually feeling okay which is a nice change of pace.
Rants/Raves: Rant: I was super annoyed with DH this morning and it ended with me in tears sobbing. I actually had a valid reason for being annoyed, but I hate that I can't hold a serious conversation at this point without me crying and seeming overly weepy. Rave: Find out baby's gender at 5pm! I'm so excited!!
Questions: Nope
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? I'd probably be the lame person who wouldn't sing. I say this because I usually need liquid courage to sing in public, and that's off the table right now. But if you did get a few drinks in me... I'd sing pretty much anything from the 90s/early 2000s. I don't really listen to music very often now.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
@bridgiebee82 @paytonpedro @mdfarmchick thanks!! I'm so happy we decided to find out early!
Question for you: did you get any color done, or just a cut? I have a hair appointment in a few weeks and wonder if I'm okay to get color. I can never remember the rules. I'll ask my OB too, but I'm curious about your understanding.
EDD / Weeks + Days: October 8th (c-section mama, so probably August 1st) // 14w 6 days
Baby is the size of a(n): Beet
Team: Finding out! Next month is the anatomy scan!
Upcoming Appointments: Tomorrow 15 weeks
How are you feeling?: Pretty decent. I'm a generally tired person, but I'm alllllllways tireddddd
Rants/Raves: I'm impatiently waiting for the anatomy scan. I appreciated that my old provider would look for gender before the AS, but this provider (while fantastic and love him) doesn't so boo! Waiting to start my little wishlist after we find out gender.
Questions: None at this moment.
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? @itsme215 Yess. Pandora's Summer Hits of The 90s. end all be all station.
And yes, Encanto on repeat with the rest of the world. Disney knew what they were doing with this one.
@paytonpedro baby child sound way cuter, haha we'll go with that. I feel you on the daily nap, especially chasing other littles around like you are. So glad you had a self love moment and enjoyed some "me" time!
@fromfurmomtobabymom8-2 I hate the unsolicited restrictions too! We're all very comfortable in our bodies and know our limits. We're pregnant not incapable. I've been waiting to go back to the registry comment and respond!
@itsme215 if you're buying little stuff like clothes just keep it stowed away in the car haha. might be an eyesore for quite sometime but, bring on the baby!
@fuzzywombat oof, sorry about your bout of food poisoning but congrats on the good NIPT results!!
@lmaplejc Depending on where you live, I can't say being pregnant is the summer is that fun. haha. First two pregnancies babies were born in July and August. I live in Louisiana, the Deep South AKA. The Devil's Playground and it was raaaaaather miserable. I don't handle heat well, so definitely dress appropriately!
@and_peggy I LOVE when children start saying what they thing they hear. Might cause an issue for school hahahaha.
@darkrose88 Pregnancy hormones do suck, so sorry. I know what you mean and it's so hard to be taken seriously when you're crying halfway through a conversation.
EDD / Weeks + Days: August 13 / 14w4d
Baby is the size of a(n): Peach
Team: Finding out next weekend!
Upcoming Appointments: None until March
How are you feeling?: Remembering how much I hate the 2nd tri. I couldn't wait to get there in my first pregnancy and then somehow felt worse than first tri? Seems to be the same way so far this go around
Rants/Raves: Trying to walk the line of soaking everything in because this will be my last pregnancy AND being honest with myself that I do not really enjoy being pregnant. Add hormones into that and it just makes me a mess
Questions: None
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? Fancy by Reba. It would not be good, but it would be sung with passion
And my anatomy scan is March 16th, so we will all have some fun that week!
EDD / Weeks + Days: 8/4 15w 6d
Baby is the size of a(n): Orange
Team: blue
Upcoming Appointments: Mid March anatomy scan
How are you feeling?: Fine, my clothes are starting to get tight, I just feel funny and I don't feel like people talk about the 2nd trimester much. I also have been more moody which is annoying, particularly since I don't notice it unless I am thinking about it.
Rants/Raves: I just with I knew more, but then everyone is different so there is that. I am also worried about labor and postpartum as my trust in how women's health is treated in the US is relatively small.
Questions: Any tips for the 2nd trimester?
GTKY- What would you sing at Karaoke night? Redneck Woman by Gretchen Wilson
@katiecattherese seconding @paytonpedro re hiring a doula
@darkrose88
@paytonpedro
Thanks so much for the input! Super helpful. Good call on giving my hairdresser a heads up so she can get any pregnancy safe products. I also agree 100% that wearing a mask will help with the strong chemical odors.
Last time around I was ultra conservative and didn't do any color. That combined with a solid 4 months of postpartum early-pandemic quarantine -- my hair was a HOT MESS.