@wisewitch222 I definitely have a draft saved. I was like holy cow did this really happen?!? I feel personally victimized! How can someone who hasn’t participated, and hasn’t offered any support (and has no intention to) have so much to say?! It all comes off extremely argumentative and selfish! “I don’t want to read about other people I just want to read about things that pertain to me ONLY”. It’s just rude! It was just circles about rules. I don’t understand why someone would stick around if they don’t like the culture of a community. I wouldn’t.
@paytonpedro I really tried hard not to engage but I couldn’t help myself. She claims to have been here from the beginning? I get really heated when someone goes out of their way to cal someone out and then backtracks or won’t even fight back. I don’t understand people - you don’t want to read through all the posts, there too many? How TF do you make friends in real life if you don’t the time to get to know someone. Sounds like she just wanted to throw around words and get no resolution.
FWIW, I’m already very thankful for the friendships I’m building here. Feel very connected with several in this group and I will go to bat against anyone who chooses to come in a disrupt the community for funsies.
@paytonpedro I didn’t feel comfortable posting in that thread, nor did I think we were going to change minds. But know I support you and @wigglyicecream as well.
I’m fairly confident at this point she is bored and looking for attention. I just am confrontational by nature and cannot help myself. I’m also very grateful for these relationships we are building and will defend any one of us. I have reported her and will continue to do so as long as she continues to harass the board. Hopefully the REAL admins and not me or @paytonpedro will do something about it. It is definitely harassment at this point. Also her continued use woman just shows us she’s only interested in one woman… herself. Girl bye.
Also thank you everybody for your support whether or not your posted in the one off thread or not. It’s nice to know you have our backs. 😊
@paytonpedro I’m officially done commenting on the SS post. It’s just soooo hard bc it’s too cold to go outside and my toddler is entertaining herself and idk what to do with myself. I should read my book but idk if my glasses or this pregnancy is giving me a headache
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Sorry, I can't help myself. Last night I was so pissed off about how rude she was being when @paytonpedro and @wigglyicecream are just the sweetest ever! And all you ladies are fantastic support for everyone. I love our community!
@bridgiebee82 thank you for coming to bat for us. I’m honestly done with her. Good luck to her and her one off threads in her private group. Hopefully now she will leave us alone
@wigglyicecream I always tell my students when they look upset that I'll fight whoever did this to them. They crack a smile and talk to me about what's bothering them. I will go to bat for anyone who is right. 💜 I'm done commenting there, but I keep looking at it to see if any more comments are made! 🤪
I let out an internal scream every time I read one of her posts and she says apart. YAS HONEY I WOULD LIKE TO BE SEPARATED FROM YOUR INSANITY not a part of it 😂
FWIW I was just following your lead @and_peggy and @paytonpedro about the polite redirects. I don’t think I ever did that in my last bmb. So the fact she thinks I am an admin is kind of a compliment. Next time I get accused I will make sure to give credit where it’s due. Also I want to pat myself on the back for finding the perfect David Rose gif and properly saving said gif. So I should thank her bc without that motivation I wouldn’t have learned how to gif on the bump. Lol
@wigglyicecream oh I’m totally just kidding about being offended. I just thought it was funny because she didn’t read through all the posts to see the multiple women redirecting. I couldn’t believe she called the 2 of you out.
@and_peggy I know you were. I also think it’s funny bc you did a lot of redirecting before I ever stepped up. Only furthers the idea that the only WOMAN she noticed or cared about is herself.
Glad there are so many posts here, she would never have the time or energy to "shift" through them all... Y'all. I'm late to this party so I won't engage that thread but that was a lot. Sorry she came at you like that out of nowhere @paytonpedro@wigglyicecream also @bridgiebee82 I'm from NJ too originally and saying "I'll fight whoever did this to you" is the most jersey thing I've ever heard lolol ❤️
Also like - she never proposed a solution. There's been an ongoing conversation on this board about the right approach to creating threads/posts that she obviously hasn't seen and regardless, I don't know what her proposed solution is???
Damn. I came in here expecting to talk about … hell I dunno, I’m sleepy and icky because apparently pregnancy rhinitis is a whole thing (yay). Now I gotta go read the drama and crazy!
I missed this conversation about that situation. Lol. I was too heated to notice much else. I'm glad the post is on its way to page 2. Love you ladies. As much as I am a people pleaser I also go to bat for what I'm passionate about. It also drives me crazy when people assume that they're so busy and everyone else must be sitting at home all day eating bonbons. Lol
Wowzers, I never would have guessed that talking about pregnancy could cause so much drama! For what it's worth, I love this group and its organization, and I am so grateful to have you all during this time in my life!
@mangoandguava I had to do that "Holy Spirit Activate" dance before every time I answered her! @mehugg where in Jersey? I'm down south, just outside of Philly.
Here's my random for the day. My entire kitchen has been one big NIGHTMARE aversion for me (it's largely a smell thing). DH has basically been doing ALL the cooking, keeping counters clean, dishes, etc. Bless his heart, he's doing his best. But truthfully, it was pretty gross, with lots of clutter everywhere. Today I threw on a mask and cleaned the kitchen. I felt silly wearing a mask in my own house, but it helped!
@malloryfrommn Right? I'm amazed at how many other uses masks have. I'm always going to have in my life. There's this amusement park ride with a distinctive smell called the Whacky Shack ( @leahrnmom knows what I'm talking about) and I wore my mask in there last summer and now I will never ride the Whacky Shack without one.
@malloryfrommn I had to clean up the kitchen when I got home from work one night this week. My husband had been taking care of me when I had covid, but just cooking and letting the dishes pile up. I couldn't take it anymore. One good thing is that I have no sense of smell right now so it wasn't terrible. It was just exhausting.
@bridgiebee82 near Princeton. My dad grew up near Morristown and my mom grew up near Asbury park and used to see Bruce Springsteen play bars. My NJ side is strong! But we'll probably always live in MA at this point.
Re: Weekly Randoms 1/10
FWIW, I’m already very thankful for the friendships I’m building here. Feel very connected with several in this group and I will go to bat against anyone who chooses to come in a disrupt the community for funsies.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
I get extra sassy when I'm sleep deprived.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
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Also @darkrose88 checking in. Haven’t heard from you in a few days (unless I missed it). Hope you’re doing okay!
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
edit: I let, not A let.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
Also like - she never proposed a solution. There's been an ongoing conversation on this board about the right approach to creating threads/posts that she obviously hasn't seen and regardless, I don't know what her proposed solution is???
eta @paytonpedro @wigglyicecream @and_peggy @leahrnmom @bridgiebee82 @ everybody else that handled that so gracefully. KUDOS. I would have been way too ugly and probably gotten my tail banned.
@anniemarie887 I live about 20 minutes from Haddonfield/Haddon Township.