Well my carrier screening came back positive for Fragile X. Which conveniently is not the one that my partner and I both to have. So I get to have an appointment with UCSF to do some invasive testing. I am soooo not okay right now.
Okay update for everyone. The Genetic counseling appointment went amazing. I have an Intermediate result which means I cannot pass down the full mutation to baby. However, later down the line if the mutation continues to be passed down it could grow into one. She apologized that my doctor's office (& their office) told me I needed to schedule an amnio and that I tested positive when I’m all reality this is a negative result for all intents and purposes for this pregnancy. . So while I am furious I understand they just saw positive and did not realize there are degrees to the positive result.
@marionberry19 That’s great news, I’m so happy for you! Sorry for all the added stress and what it might mean in the future, but glad all is ok for right now.
@marionberry19 that's awesome! So glad you finally have the answer and can breathe a sigh of relief.
***History & TW in Spoiler***
***bfp & child warning*** TTC - since 2014 7 rounds of Clomid - BFN IUI #1 - October 2015 - BFN IUI #2 - November 2015 - BFN IUI #3 - December 2015 - BFN IVF #1 - March 2016 Retrieval #1 - April 2016 FET #1 - May 2016 - BFP!!! DS - Born January 2017 Trying for baby #2... FET #2 - January 2018 - BFN No more embryos left; switched to a new RE IVF/Retrieval #2 - January 2019 IVF/Retrieval #3 - March 2019 FET #3 - April 2019 - BFP!!! - DD: Born December 2019 Trying for baby #3... FET #4 - October 2021 - BFP!!! - Due June 2022
I'm a gray zone/intermediate carrier as well. It's hella complicated as I'm sure you know, so I'm glad you were able to talk to a genetic counselor!! It's my experience that most people and doctors generally don't understand fragile x (I mean, I didn't lol) and for those like us in the gray zone, were not really a carrier, but we're not *not* a carrier, ya know? So I'll test my kiddos (or encourage them to test) to see if they got my "bad" X and what their repeats look like, when they start thinking about kids, so they can make their own decisions about their reproductive journey.
@marionberry19 so happy to hear your update! And how cool that @pajamstagrams reached out who is having a baby a month earlier with the same condition?!
@pajamstagrams I wasn’t given genetic testing with my son (this is my second baby) so it came as quite a shock. However, I’m glad to know now so I can inform my kids about it and not have them get freaked out for nothing.
Re: Carrier Screening Came Back Positive
TTC - since 2014
7 rounds of Clomid - BFN
IUI #1 - October 2015 - BFN
IUI #2 - November 2015 - BFN
IUI #3 - December 2015 - BFN
IVF #1 - March 2016
Retrieval #1 - April 2016
FET #1 - May 2016 - BFP!!! DS - Born January 2017
Trying for baby #2...
FET #2 - January 2018 - BFN
No more embryos left; switched to a new RE
IVF/Retrieval #2 - January 2019
IVF/Retrieval #3 - March 2019
FET #3 - April 2019 - BFP!!! - DD: Born December 2019
Trying for baby #3...
FET #4 - October 2021 - BFP!!! - Due June 2022
@marionberry19 ❤️❤️
I'm a gray zone/intermediate carrier as well. It's hella complicated as I'm sure you know, so I'm glad you were able to talk to a genetic counselor!! It's my experience that most people and doctors generally don't understand fragile x (I mean, I didn't lol) and for those like us in the gray zone, were not really a carrier, but we're not *not* a carrier, ya know? So I'll test my kiddos (or encourage them to test) to see if they got my "bad" X and what their repeats look like, when they start thinking about kids, so they can make their own decisions about their reproductive journey.