Upcoming Appointments: Thursday morning is my 12 week OB
How are you feeling?: Symptom-wise just tired. Recovering from a stomach bug that my kids shared with me last week/over the weekend. Not fun but much less horrible than having it at 26 weeks like I did with my first DD
Rants/Raves: my NIPT results came back this morning, everything looks good and I’m having another girl!!!
Questions:
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Always sweet…. Eek my sweet tooth is so bad, especially while I’m pregnant. DD wanted gummy worms from the gas station last week and they are way too easy to eat too many of
How are you feeling?: had a major headache yesterday and was super tired so took another nap. Nausea has been hit or miss, just as I think I’m doing better it hits again.
Rants/Raves: my OB just called me saying that I was positive for a UTI ( I haven’t had any typical symptoms of one but some of them are an overlap with being preggo so who knows) but my appt was 3 weeks ago. Kinda frustrated that it took this long for them to tell me.
Questions: anyone else have a uti while pregnant?
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Sweet. Ice cream is my jam.
Upcoming Appointments: 12 week US in a couple weeks. I had the blood work for genetic testing today though!
How are you feeling?: nauseous and headaches from 12-7pm every day. Plus super annoying rhinitis. I can’t breathe!!
Rants/Raves: super excited to find out the gender next week I can’t believe I can know this early!!!
Questions:
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Salty for sure!! I have to be in the mood for sweets and they have to be realllllly tasty. This pregnancy has been chips, Mac and cheese, mashed potatoes, and all the salty carbs. Also frozen mango. Lol.
Upcoming Appointments: We're doing a private US on Wednesday to hold me over until my anatomy scan on 12/15 and I have my normal midwife appt on 11/12.
How are you feeling?: Starting to feel much better! I was having weekly nighttime headaches last week, but those have subsided slightly and I'm starting to want some foods again. Heartburn still comes and goes, but that symptom always bothered me the least.
Rants/Raves: Really excited to share our announcement this week!!
TW: MC mentioned
I'll also be sharing about our previous loss in my post to help others feel less alone if they ever have to go through a MC. One of my co-workers was very open about hers and it really helped to have her as a resource during that pregnancy and even this one. I'm a little nervous about sharing it, but I know it'll feel like a weight off my shoulders once I do share.
Questions: None
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Normally I LOVE candy, but this pregnancy I have been so turned off by sweets. I'm finally starting to enjoy them again, but I've been craving more salty food the past 12 weeks.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: Approx 11 weeks (I find out Wednesday!)
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: I was worried about the timing for the NT scan, but they were able to move my dating ultrasound today, to wednesday instead, so they can do both the dating ultrasound and the NT scan at the same time. I can't wait.
How are you feeling?: Better this week. Just slightly nauseous and always hungry lol.
Rants/Raves: I bought DD (she's 8) a hoodie that says "Big Sister" on it. I'm planning on giving it to her soon so she can figure out what the surprise is.
Questions: Nope
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Definitely more salty snacks like chips this time around. And for some reason clementines are the greatest fruit on earth right now.
@happynapper yay for good NIPT results and a baby girl!!
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 5/19 10+4
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: 11/8
How are you feeling?: tired, but fine…after some super rough nausea the past couple of weeks, I’m freaking out. Someone please tell me this is normal 😩
Rants/Raves: we are on vacation which is great! But I feel like I’m being a stick in the mud. Everyone else is happily drinking away and I’m so freaking tired because DH has been snoring while we’re here (plus the typical adjustment of a different bed). Plus I’m trying to get some alone time that I literally never get at home and DH comes in every 10 minutes asking what I’m doing lol. Anyway I just feel like everyone thinks I suck. Plus DD has been SO whiny for who knows what reason. We’ve kept her on her normal nap and bedtime schedule but she’s crabby from the moment she wakes up. I’m done complaining now haha.
Questions: is it normal to have symptoms suddenly completely disappear at this point? I haven’t felt nauseous since Thursday or friday.
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Hmmmmm both? If I’m actually snacking it’s almost always salty, but I have a major sweet tooth and always want dessert after eating a meal.
@b_1029 I had a couple days starting around the 10w mark where I felt totally fine (and of course freaked out) and then it would pick back up a little bit. Now that I'm almost 13w I have way more good days and just small moments of feeling bad.
@addsprinkles521 3 weeks is a long time to wait to hear you have a UTI.. I haven't had one while pregnant. Are they giving you antibiotics?
@brookejay06 I had never done NIPT with my other kids so it DOES feel so early to find out! Like, from the first time I feel her move, I will know she's a girl. It's really exciting for my type A, information seeking self
@karisahamdi I think its really nice that you're going to share about your loss when you post your announcements. Announcements can still hit me out of nowhere, even after having my second DD (my first rainbow baby, and this one will be too). I've never shared any specifics on social media but I will usually post something on infant loss awareness day just because there does need to be more awareness and support around it at all stages.
@b_1029 we haven't really done much for vacation but even on the few short travel situations we've done it is so hard to relax when kids are sort of out of their element. I hope you can enjoy yourself some.
@happynapper yay for good results and another girl! I'm currently obsessed with sour gummy worms! Can't get my hands off them!
@addsprinkles521 wth with the 3 week UTI result delay! I'd be pretty p'od that they waited that long to say something. Hope it clears quickly.
@brookejay06 It's wild how early you can find out the gender. It's even more wild when you tell people the gender and they are like "but it's so soon!"
@MrsLaLaBug indulge in the cravings! You won't gain 100lbs.
@karisahamdi Ah, lucky with the private ultrasound! You'll love that little peek you get before the Anatomy.
@fireflyz_56 yes to the clementines! I've also been eating a few a day.
@b_1029 Florida vacation, right? Great week for vacation weather!
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 13w2d // May 1
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: 11/16 ~ so far away!
How are you feeling?: Good and bad...more in rant.
Rants/Raves: I've been feeling pretty anxious the last week (hence lack of participation) and have had this constant feeling of doom, like something bad is going to happen and I just felt so OFF. Last night was probably my worst night and I went to bed with a racing heart and fears I was going to have a blood clot and PE. I wake up today feeling better and take a good inventory of what has been different over the last week and the only thing that stuck out was I'm not longer on twice a day progesterone. A quick Dr. Google and sure as sh*t, some of the side affects of coming off it are anxiety, depression and a host of other things. I read that and all the sudden I'm like "I'm not crazy...I was weaned off this incorrectly" and have felt so much more at peace all day.
Questions: I'll ask this to the question thread as well...but any other progesterone mamas here experience the above?
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? SWEET right now. I was salty early in this but now I've switched over to sweet ~ a scoop of ice cream at night and gummy worms during the day.
@and846 I *think* my OB is going to have me stop progesterone next week so I'll have to watch out and let you know. I don't remember that happening with DD though.
@fireflyz_56 I crave citrus while pregnant as well! Does a great job cutting through nausea.
@b_1029 definitely normal for symptoms to come & go and get better by now! My nausea is getting better in the morning and it freaks me out a little, but then I remember I still have other symptoms (helloooo sciatica)
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 5/16, 11+1
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: friday for nipt
How are you feeling?: I didn't bring my pregnancy pillow to an overnight hotel stay over the weekend and that was a huge mistake, so now my back hurts. Whoops 😬 otherwise feeling ok, minus the afternoons/evening lol.
Also, been *really* hungry recently so I'm guessing my weight is finally going to start going up!
Rants/Raves: rant: really eager for daylight savings coming up. Need those clocks to go back so it's lighter in the AM because 1) so I wake up easier 2) so DD wakes up easier and 3) so I can see all the idiots who bike/run/walk in the street without reflective tape when I'm trying to back out of my driveway. SERIOUSLY people, use tape/lights/whatever because it's pitch black and I can't see sh*t when I back out. And also, know road rules: pedestrians need to walk facing oncoming traffic! Gah. (Our sidewalks are absolute garbage so I don't have any expectation for people to use them lol)
Questions: nope
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Salty for sure, especially when pregnant. But I'm not a big snack person anyway, so this is for salty foods/meals in general.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 05/07…so like 12 weeks + some days? Idk
FTM/STM/TTM+: 4thTM
Upcoming Appointments: none until November 8
How are you feeling?: I had been feeling better and then nausea came raring back today. Also been getting more headaches but the exhaustion isn’t quite as bad as it’s been
Rants/Raves: my 2 oldest are officially done with naps and I’m just not ok with that lol. They’re 5 and 3, and the oldest really was only napping like 30-45 minutes a few times a week, but DD2 has just decided she doesn’t need sleep anymore and mama just wants quiet time in the afternoon lol. Thankfully, they’re doing quiet play time pretty well but I miss the quiet of nap time
Questions: we got our NIPT results back and it says we’re having another girl! But in all honesty, this absolutely doesn’t feel like a girl pregnancy to me lol. Anyone been shocked by the gender before because they were just positive they were having the opposite?
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Salty. I want allllll the bread (and I’m having to limit gluten thanks to my UC right now).
@happynapper yeah they sent over a prescription of cephalexin for me to take for the next week and then do a clean catch urine sample next visit (though I do that every visit). @And846 3 weeks is a ridiculous amount of time especially since I know my other results were posted within a few days on my patient portal. I also am unsure why they wouldn’t want to see me first before writing a script since it has been 3 weeks and possibly resolved itself (I’ve had no symptoms except those that overlap with being preggo so I have no idea how long I’ve had it or if it is gone)
Sorry, I've been MIA with DD being home sick (and DH sick over the weekend) so I'm on a tear catching up on all the threads!
@karisahamdi I'm glad you're sharing your story with your announcement since you feel comfortable doing so. I definitely found it a weight off my shoulders when I shared my IF story on FB, and people I didn't even know were having trouble TTC or had their own losses all came forward. It also helped me bond with a co-worker who I didn't realize was having the same struggles. All of which is to say, there's definite power in making these things more visible.
@b_1029 Happy vacation! I'm sorry you feel like you're bringing everyone down; I'm sure you're not, but it does really suck to feel "punk" (as DH and I call it). I hope that you're able to relax and get some rest, snoring aside. ;-) As for the symptoms, I definitely started having things come and go around 10 weeks this time around. May the nausea just be dissipating! FX!
@MrsLaLaBug I agree with @And846 to indulge in your cravings! Especially in first tri when it's really all you can do to eat anything.
@And846 I'm sorry that going off the progesterone has given you hormone whiplash! I was on progesterone until 11 weeks but my RE had me taper it so I didn't notice any big issues. It was also progesterone in oil, but I'm assuming you're on suppositories? So not sure if there's a difference in going off that just based on how it's absorbed or because you can't control that dosage as closely as you can with a shot. I'm glad that you're starting to feel better.
@fireflyz_56@pajamstagrams I'm not craving citrus, but I just switched to Ritual PNVs and they have a lovely citrus taste that is so much more palatable than the other PNVs I've ever taken. I wish I'd known citrus could help with nausea!
@pajamstagrams Congrats on hopefully gaining weight! Also why on earth do people not wear reflective tape in the dark for those activities? I swear it's because they can see you and forget that they just look like dark shadow to you. People here are constantly crossing mid-block in the dark and frankly I'm surprised more people don't get hit that way.
@skc040512 So, not shocked by the gender in terms of test results being wrong, but we were Team Green with DD and people kept telling me I was definitely having a boy just by looking at me. Which, even though I know is BS I somehow let get into my head. So my first words to her were, "I thought you were a boy!" LOL.
How are you feeling?: Still exhausted but my nausea has definitely gotten a lot better (it was never terrible, but I've noticed a distinct decrease). Would like the exhaustion to go away now, though, thank you!
Rants/Raves: I have to argue with my insurance because they've decided at least part of the NIPT is "experimental" and won't cover it. BS. You covered it last time and I'm even older now!
Questions: None
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Sweet! I need to cut back on the Sweettarts and sour gummies.
Upcoming Appointments: I just had my routine check this week, so nothing until the end of November
How are you feeling?: Still pretty nauseous in the afternoon, but the Reglan is helping a little. My exhaustion is mildly better, so I’ll take it
Rants/Raves: My husband is seriously irritating me lately. We’ve been in a big funk, and half the time I don’t feel like putting forth any effort to get out of it
Questions: natm
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Hmm, both. I lean more towards salty or sour, but this go around I’m pretty on board for candy too, which is super weird for me
Re: Weekly check in (w/o 10/25)
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM
Upcoming Appointments: Thursday morning is my 12 week OB
How are you feeling?: Symptom-wise just tired. Recovering from a stomach bug that my kids shared with me last week/over the weekend. Not fun but much less horrible than having it at 26 weeks like I did with my first DD
Rants/Raves: my NIPT results came back this morning, everything looks good and I’m having another girl!!!
Questions:
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Always sweet…. Eek my sweet tooth is so bad, especially while I’m pregnant. DD wanted gummy worms from the gas station last week and they are way too easy to eat too many of
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: Nov 2
How are you feeling?: had a major headache yesterday and was super tired so took another nap. Nausea has been hit or miss, just as I think I’m doing better it hits again.
Rants/Raves: my OB just called me saying that I was positive for a UTI ( I haven’t had any typical symptoms of one but some of them are an overlap with being preggo so who knows) but my appt was 3 weeks ago. Kinda frustrated that it took this long for them to tell me.
Questions: anyone else have a uti while pregnant?
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Sweet. Ice cream is my jam.
FTM/STM/TTM+: second
Upcoming Appointments: 12 week US in a couple weeks. I had the blood work for genetic testing today though!
How are you feeling?: nauseous and headaches from 12-7pm every day. Plus super annoying rhinitis. I can’t breathe!!
Rants/Raves: super excited to find out the gender next week
Questions:
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Salty for sure!! I have to be in the mood for sweets and they have to be realllllly tasty. This pregnancy has been chips, Mac and cheese, mashed potatoes, and all the salty carbs. Also frozen mango. Lol.
May 30 / 9w1d
FTM/STM/TTM+:
TTM w/ this SURPRISE baby
Upcoming Appointments:
NIPT testing and 2nd dating U/S on Nov. 1st
How are you feeling?:
tiredddddd
Rants/Raves:
the cravings are already going wild at this point. I’m terrified I’m going to gain like 100lbs
Questions:
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks?
both!!! Sometimes I want a piece of dark chocolate, others I want some chips or cheezits
FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM
Upcoming Appointments: We're doing a private US on Wednesday to hold me over until my anatomy scan on 12/15 and I have my normal midwife appt on 11/12.
How are you feeling?: Starting to feel much better! I was having weekly nighttime headaches last week, but those have subsided slightly and I'm starting to want some foods again. Heartburn still comes and goes, but that symptom always bothered me the least.
Rants/Raves: Really excited to share our announcement this week!!
TW: MC mentioned
Questions: None
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Normally I LOVE candy, but this pregnancy I have been so turned off by sweets. I'm finally starting to enjoy them again, but I've been craving more salty food the past 12 weeks.
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: I was worried about the timing for the NT scan, but they were able to move my dating ultrasound today, to wednesday instead, so they can do both the dating ultrasound and the NT scan at the same time. I can't wait.
How are you feeling?: Better this week. Just slightly nauseous and always hungry lol.
Rants/Raves: I bought DD (she's 8) a hoodie that says "Big Sister" on it. I'm planning on giving it to her soon so she can figure out what the surprise is.
Questions: Nope
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Definitely more salty snacks like chips this time around. And for some reason clementines are the greatest fruit on earth right now.
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 5/19 10+4
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: 11/8
How are you feeling?: tired, but fine…after some super rough nausea the past couple of weeks, I’m freaking out. Someone please tell me this is normal 😩
Rants/Raves: we are on vacation which is great! But I feel like I’m being a stick in the mud. Everyone else is happily drinking away and I’m so freaking tired because DH has been snoring while we’re here (plus the typical adjustment of a different bed). Plus I’m trying to get some alone time that I literally never get at home and DH comes in every 10 minutes asking what I’m doing lol. Anyway I just feel like everyone thinks I suck. Plus DD has been SO whiny for who knows what reason. We’ve kept her on her normal nap and bedtime schedule but she’s crabby from the moment she wakes up. I’m done complaining now haha.
Questions: is it normal to have symptoms suddenly completely disappear at this point? I haven’t felt nauseous since Thursday or friday.
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Hmmmmm both? If I’m actually snacking it’s almost always salty, but I have a major sweet tooth and always want dessert after eating a meal.
ttc #1 11.2017
dx: unexplained
letrozole + trigger + ti: bfn x 2
iui #1 9.25.2019: bfn
iui #2 10.23.2019; bfp 11.3.2019; edd 7.17.2020
dd 7.6.2020
@brookejay06 I had never done NIPT with my other kids so it DOES feel so early to find out! Like, from the first time I feel her move, I will know she's a girl. It's really exciting for my type A, information seeking self
@karisahamdi I think its really nice that you're going to share about your loss when you post your announcements. Announcements can still hit me out of nowhere, even after having my second DD (my first rainbow baby, and this one will be too). I've never shared any specifics on social media but I will usually post something on infant loss awareness day just because there does need to be more awareness and support around it at all stages.
@b_1029 we haven't really done much for vacation but even on the few short travel situations we've done it is so hard to relax when kids are sort of out of their element. I hope you can enjoy yourself some.
@addsprinkles521 wth with the 3 week UTI result delay! I'd be pretty p'od that they waited that long to say something. Hope it clears quickly.
@brookejay06 It's wild how early you can find out the gender. It's even more wild when you tell people the gender and they are like "but it's so soon!"
@MrsLaLaBug indulge in the cravings! You won't gain 100lbs.
@karisahamdi Ah, lucky with the private ultrasound! You'll love that little peek you get before the Anatomy.
@fireflyz_56 yes to the clementines! I've also been eating a few a day.
@b_1029 Florida vacation, right? Great week for vacation weather!
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 13w2d // May 1
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Upcoming Appointments: 11/16 ~ so far away!
How are you feeling?: Good and bad...more in rant.
Rants/Raves: I've been feeling pretty anxious the last week (hence lack of participation) and have had this constant feeling of doom, like something bad is going to happen and I just felt so OFF. Last night was probably my worst night and I went to bed with a racing heart and fears I was going to have a blood clot and PE. I wake up today feeling better and take a good inventory of what has been different over the last week and the only thing that stuck out was I'm not longer on twice a day progesterone. A quick Dr. Google and sure as sh*t, some of the side affects of coming off it are anxiety, depression and a host of other things. I read that and all the sudden I'm like "I'm not crazy...I was weaned off this incorrectly" and have felt so much more at peace all day.
Questions: I'll ask this to the question thread as well...but any other progesterone mamas here experience the above?
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? SWEET right now. I was salty early in this but now I've switched over to sweet ~ a scoop of ice cream at night and gummy worms during the day.
@fireflyz_56 I crave citrus while pregnant as well! Does a great job cutting through nausea.
@b_1029 definitely normal for symptoms to come & go and get better by now! My nausea is getting better in the morning and it freaks me out a little, but then I remember I still have other symptoms (helloooo sciatica)
Est Due Date / Weeks + Days: 5/16, 11+1
Also, been *really* hungry recently so I'm guessing my weight is finally going to start going up!
FTM/STM/TTM+: 4thTM
Upcoming Appointments: none until November 8
How are you feeling?: I had been feeling better and then nausea came raring back today. Also been getting more headaches but the exhaustion isn’t quite as bad as it’s been
Rants/Raves: my 2 oldest are officially done with naps and I’m just not ok with that lol. They’re 5 and 3, and the oldest really was only napping like 30-45 minutes a few times a week, but DD2 has just decided she doesn’t need sleep anymore and mama just wants quiet time in the afternoon lol. Thankfully, they’re doing quiet play time pretty well but I miss the quiet of nap time
Questions: we got our NIPT results back and it says we’re having another girl! But in all honesty, this absolutely doesn’t feel like a girl pregnancy to me lol. Anyone been shocked by the gender before because they were just positive they were having the opposite?
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Salty. I want allllll the bread (and I’m having to limit gluten thanks to my UC right now).
@And846 3 weeks is a ridiculous amount of time especially since I know my other results were posted within a few days on my patient portal. I also am unsure why they wouldn’t want to see me first before writing a script since it has been 3 weeks and possibly resolved itself (I’ve had no symptoms except those that overlap with being preggo so I have no idea how long I’ve had it or if it is gone)
12w5d
FTM/STM/TTM+:
TTM+!
Upcoming Appointments:
OB appt on Nov 3rd
How are you feeling?:
I go back and forth from great to garbage.
Rants/Raves:
Can the 1st trimester be over already?!
Questions:
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks?
Gimme AAAALL the salty snacks!!
FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM- still feels weird to say haha
Upcoming Appointments: I just had my routine check this week, so nothing until the end of November
How are you feeling?: Still pretty nauseous in the afternoon, but the Reglan is helping a little. My exhaustion is mildly better, so I’ll take it
Rants/Raves: My husband is seriously irritating me lately. We’ve been in a big funk, and half the time I don’t feel like putting forth any effort to get out of it
Questions: natm
GTKY: Sweet or salty snacks? Hmm, both. I lean more towards salty or sour, but this go around I’m pretty on board for candy too, which is super weird for me