@madiirosee yep! I saw a great deal for a car seat this week so I bought it, and that was a huge step for me. Until then, I'd gone no further than adding to a baby registry. Like you, I'm PGAL, and also "advanced maternal age" with a uterine deformity, so yeah, I feel you on the nervousness. Good luck at your anatomy scan!!
@madiirosee Yes, I have no reason to be afraid, no risks other than AMA and no losses or traumas, but I am afraid anyway. I have forced myself to do some things because I don't want everything to be last minute and absolutely overwhelming. But I hope some kind of switch flips after my anatomy scan.
I am annoyed that DH is making my anxiety worse by also being anxious about other things that are going on that I wouldn't necessarily be anxious about on my own. I just want to worry about one thing and be left alone by everything else in my life. But that's not a fair or reasonable feeling, I know.
@madiirosee It's not his fault. It's not that what he's worried about isn't important. I just wouldn't choose to worry about it as much if he wasn't also worried.
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I am annoyed that DH is making my anxiety worse by also being anxious about other things that are going on that I wouldn't necessarily be anxious about on my own. I just want to worry about one thing and be left alone by everything else in my life. But that's not a fair or reasonable feeling, I know.