Monday B*tch Fest — The Bump
December 2021 Moms

Monday B*tch Fest

Anything you need to vent about?
BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's

Re: Monday B*tch Fest

  • Peeved I'll be losing my job (mass lay off, found out this morning) at the end of June aka mid-2nd tri and having to try and find a job while pregnant. OH - and I currently WFH (not because of covid, just how role is set up) with an amazing boss who would've made life with a newborn as a working mom easy peasy sooooo basically PLOT TWIST on my life.
  • @mommaduck2490 UGH, that's the worst, so sorry! I've been outsourced before and it's just the worst, especially when it's a place and with people you love. Hopefully you land in a place you love just as much, or more!
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  • @mommaduck2490 I am so sorry, that sucks so bad! Hoping you can find something that's the perfect fit!
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
  • @mommaduck2490 that really stinks, I'm so sorry. Hope you find something that's even better than your last job!
    Married 12/28/13
    I'm 34 DH: 45
    DS 1/29/16 IVF
    2 Failed Female Embryo transfers in 2017
    DS 3/28/18
    BFP and DD FET Due 12/22/21!

  • @misspricklepants @brookert615 @2b1gmom -- AGH, y'all make my hormonal casserole eye's sweat. THANK YOU!! I work in HR so not only do I have to deliver this news to myself, but 500+ others. It's going to be a week to say the least. Your kind words are appreciated more than you realize!! Thank you, really!! 
  • @mommaduck2490- what a week :( I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. I hope they offering nice packages to you and everyone
    History in Spoiler

    Age: 32 (same with DH). Together since 2006, Married June 2013 and TTC since August 2015
    Diagnosis: Mild Endo, DOR (AMH of 1.5), Poor Quality Eggs/embryos, Displaced Window of Implantation (ERA Post Receptive)
    March-May 2016: 1 TI and 2 IUIs- BFN 
    June 2016- Laproscopy- found/removed mild endo and confirmed only 1 normal healthy ovary.
    August 2016- IVF #1 with Antagonist Protocol- Cancelled (2 lead follies), converted to IUI- BFN
    Oct-Nov 2016- IVF #2 with Estrogen Priming Micro Lupron Protocol, 2 eggs retrieved, day 3 transfer of 1- BFN
    January 2017- New RE, IVF#3 with Estrogen Priming Antagonist Protocol, 12 eggs, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, 2 day 5 early blasts transferred (none to freeze :(), BFN
    May 2017- Sept 2017- Starting Donor Egg process! Waiting for donor to be available... and then she is pregnant at baseline :(
    Oct 2017- Donor #2: 25R, 22M,18F, 12 blasts frozen! Fresh transfer cancelled due to thin lining with fluid :(
    Nov 2017- Hysterscopy to remove polyp
    Dec 2017- DE FET #1 on 12/8 on 2 perfect blasts- BFN and devastated
    Jan-Mar 2018- ERA #1- Post receptive by 24 hours, ERA #2 RECEPTIVE with 4 days of Progesterone
    Apr 2018- DE FET cancelled for lining issues :(
    Jun 2018- DE FET #2 of two 1AA blasts- first BFP ever! Beta 10dp5dt- 378, Beta 14dp5dt- 2840, Beta 16dp5dt- 4035, beta 18dp5dt- 10916. Due on 2/20 with one baby after a vanishing twin
    Baby Born born early @ 33.5 weeks due to Pre-e
    Back for # 2!
  • @mommaduck2490 - I'm so sorry to hear that. That sucks so bad. I hope you're able to find another great job with a family friendly boss. 

    FWP - We have family pictures coming up in 3 weeks, and I am so unhappy with how I look. Trying to find picture outfits is always stressful but even more so now that I've gained 10-12lbs since fall. Bleh. 
    Me:35 DH:35
    Dx: PCOS
    DS1 born 11/2014
    DS2 born 11/2018
    3 previous losses
    Rainbow baby due 12/2021 - Team Green

  • You guys I needed this thread SO bad today!! My brother is getting married this coming weekend 6 hours from where we live. DH requested Friday off a long time ago so we could drive down in time for the grooms dinner & to help with whatever they needed. Found out last Friday they scheduled him to work because two people with more seniority than him also requested the day off. He works for a large company with lots of rules which I understand to a point but COME ON! I’m keeping my fingers crossed on of the other two guys will give in & work so DH can have the day off. Otherwise I will be driving 6 hours by myself with my two littles and DH will just have to leave after work & miss the grooms dinner, which is so upsetting to me because this is a big deal & I am always a ‘family first’ type of person. Thanks for letting me rant friends!

    @mommaduck2490 that sounds awful, so sorry you have to go through that!!
  • @midwestmomma2 Ah, that is not cool! Hope they can figure it out so your husband can have that day off and not miss anything!
    BFP 6/3/19 EDD 2/14/20 BFP 4/15/21 EDD 12/20/21
    Diagnosed with PCOS & Hashimoto's
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