Hey guys need some advise here... My FIL and husband have made plans that as soon as our daughter is born, hubs is gonna call him and he's going to come down as soon as he gets the call (he lives 6 hrs away) meaning he will be at our house and staying with us when we come back from the hospital. I already know I want NO visitors for at least a week (not even my family and they completely understand this and know that if someone stays at the house it's to watch our dog and then leave). I was never asked about this plan and was just told that that WAS the plan as he would watch our dog. I am completely uncomfortable with this and have told hubs about it. I feel like I offended him by saying I didn't want his dad at our house after our daughter was born (I didn't say those words exactly but did say I am not going to be myself for at least that first week and not going to want to see people, not even my family). The conversation ended there as it wasn't well received... How did y'all handle this discussion with your SO? How did you stand your ground but had them understand why you're asking for this time to just be the three of you for a week? I need to add, our baby is the first grandchild on both sides of the family so I understand that everyone is excited for her arrival.