Mine isn't too crazy. DH has been complaining that I have been making the bed extra hot at night and that he is having trouble sleeping. Do I feel bad...yes. But I also enjoy the fact that he finally understands my (non-pregnant) everyday struggle when he was normally making me overheat at night.
I’ve been wearing practically the same outfit everyday for the last week probably. I do wash it so it’s not like dirty everyday and I stay at home...but yeah these leggings just feel really good on the bloat and my super comfy t-shirts also good for bloat. My leggings are also the only pair of comfy pants and cover up my leg hair that I haven’t shaved in like 3 weeks😅
@cheers28 same here, he’s been complaining so much about how hot I am when he’s a furnace 100% of the time. I think he’s done more complaining so far than I have😂
With my first I started snoring to the point DH would go sleep in our spare bedroom at our old house. I assume I will have the issue again with this pregnancy. In our current house we don't have a spare bedroom. Fffc I don't feel bad. DH snores horribly and I never make a big deal out of it, but suddenly when it's me snoring there's a problem.
@cheers28@justyouraveragemama I also do not remember the last time I shaved. I am blessed with a husband who just does not care, so I really just have to worry about other people who would see it.. which is no one right now hah. Maybe that's my fffc - I just do not shave unless someone else is going to see my legs... or my pits
@krash_ DH is such a mouth breather breath right straps wouldn't help this situation. Usually I'm fine as long as I fall asleep first and with being pregnant that's not really a problem currently.
FH dropped the "I think you should be a SAHM" bomb on me this week. After years of me telling him how much I HATED staying home with my son. Super annoyed. I should be grateful that I have the opportunity to do so but I'm more annoyed then anything.
@knottie431e57b24bb5252b I don’t blame you. I do not have the patience to be a SAHM. I have 100% respect and admiration for those that can because I just cannot. I love my son but I also really like my alone time to work and make money. If you can manage daycare for two even if your salary just barely covers it, then I would work because your mental health is worth it.
*TW LC*
Me & MH: 32 DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU) TTC #2: 12/2019 Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@knottie431e57b24bb5252b It is nice to have the opportunity but it is also important to ensure you are happy with the decision. Make sure you guys have some serious conversations and figure out what works best for you! I don't have a full-time job right now just a couple part-time; I coach cheerleading and work as a sub in the schools. When we have kids I plan to be a SAHM, but I could never give up coaching and DH understands that.
@cheers28 I’m in a similar boat. My job’s full time, but I only work 3 days each week. I absolutely hated being a SAHM and this gives me a good balance of home and career.
@krash_ That was his reasoning that I would barely cut even. But he’s the one who encouraged me to take a lower paying job so I can have more time at home for family time. To be honest my income is just spending and vacation money. We talked about it more this weekend though and we’re both on the same page that once baby comes I will take the rest of the year off but go back to work right after the new year
Re: FFFC - 1/8
not the best but I don’t get out much these days😂
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
H has been angling for it too and sahm during pandemic would be really rough on my mental health.